What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?

thiswontlastlongv · 2025-02-11T11:30:55+00:00

Posting pictures isn’t a good look unless it’s in your line of work.

It’s not a good look because YOU posted it. If SHE posts of picture of you, that’s different. That’s when you get the benifits… online anyway

Just a few days ago I got first hand experience of girls like guys with other girls

Long story short, on holiday with a female friend, totally platonic. Met a girl and wanted to bring her back to the Airbnb I told the girl I’m with a friend, she didn’t believe we were just friends… we get to the Airbnb n my friend gets upset we were loud and asks the girl and I to leave (we were talking normally not loud at all)

Before we got to the Airbnb the date was pretty chill, light touch and hand holding that’s it

Soon as my friend went back to her room, the girl jumped on me n we started making out, passionately. Left the Airbnb, back to the bar, more making out, and dancing on me… she went from a chill girl to like a cat in heat all of a sudden.

And now wants to see me again… all well knowing I could have been lying and that my “friend” is more than a friend

Ballislife1313 · 2025-02-11T11:30:28+00:00

They LOVE it. I uploaded a photo of me and a female friend of mine (where I look good) and my matches increased significantly right away.

Edit : maybe they don't love it but it definitely makes them want you more.

on_a_benderxo · 2025-02-11T14:22:15+00:00

If its genuine its fine, if its forced then its not fine

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-02-11T16:00:38+00:00

Understand that women are conditioned to believe certain things and they have an automatic response to questions like these.

Others include:

Do women like shirtless pics in a profile?

Automatic response: ewwwww, no!

Reality: they do, because they lust after men’s bodies as much as we must after theirs. So if you have abs and muscle mass, absolutely post a shirtless photo.

Do women like it when you post photos with other women?

Automatic response: ewwwww, no, I will never match with a guy expecting to compete with other women, ewww.

Reality: women LOVE competing for the attention of a man who is desired by others. As a matter of fact, this is the first things women are trying to access about you: do you get other bitches. And if you look like you don’t, you are out.

Should I write on my bio what I want in a woman and what my expectations are?

Automatic response: ewwwww, no. We don’t like it when a man is acting picky and arrogant, blah blah blah.

Reality: when you show that you have high standards and are particular, it raises your value in her eyes and immediately makes you a challenge, which women LOVE.

Here is the jist of it. In the normal society and in your conditioning you are taught to make it as easy for women as possible to pick you. Do what they want, always be available, respond fast, be nice. But that’s the exact opposite of what excites them. Emotionally they want someone who is a challenge, who is not easy to get, who is making it harder for them to win him over. If she can win you over easily, then you are no challenge for her.

FindingE-Username · 2025-02-11T12:11:30+00:00

I like to see a guy is social and that women trust him. If i was in the 'talking' stage with a guy and he posted photos out with girls though, id probably feel a bit put off and discouraged. Not so much it it was a big group photo but if he was out posting photos with his arms round girls I'd probably think he's not actually that interested in me then (unless I knew them to be friends of his).

Optimal_Bar_7401 · 2025-02-11T19:04:23+00:00

There is a very fine line. It has to be subtle. If I sense you are trying to come off a certain way, I will trust you even less than I would if you had no pics with girls.

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-02-11T16:47:02+00:00

What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?

Depends. It is a nuanced thing.

This one guy takes selfies with girls at the club and posts them. He also takes group photos with girls at the club.

That works. The setting is a normal to hang out.

As long as the pictures look like the people are there willingly it works.

It also has the added benefit of girls having tun and the picture attributing it to him.

When other girls see this, what do they think?

Depends. Maybe even nothing.

Pre-selection is an emotional response not a logical one.

Do they think… ?

And this is what you are not getting - It doesn’t matter what they think. The emotions are important.

And the emotion if done correctly should trigger Pre-selection.

If this guy was talking to a girl and getting to know her and he was posting this stuff,

I will try to explain this as simply as possible.

Women don’t have this LONG term SHORT term thinking.

She likes him (again because of pre-selection) and that is enough for her.

would she think he only wants casual or would it not have an affect on what she thinks his intentions are?

This one is depends and doesn’t matter.

Look if a perfect behaviourally and looks wise 10 is in your life - do you attribute negative thoughts to her cooking ?

No. She doesn’t either.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-11T18:08:07+00:00

Context matter. Bar is bad. Girls around you cause your life is cool and they’re just around you is good

Thebiggestbigsquid · 2025-02-12T02:21:14+00:00

Attracts the less quality women for sure, probably deters some good ones so if you wanna get laid it’s great

dogstarfugitive · 2025-02-16T16:21:03+00:00

Girl may have thought it was cringe. In my experience telling girls stories about other girls or showing girls that other girls desire u is the way to go.

Title	What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?
Author	WhyNotLosingWeight
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Date	February 11, 2025 11:19 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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