Improving my make out game

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-02-20T03:59:59+00:00

Well the best resource is already in front of you! There's no shame in asking how he does those techniques and where he likes to be touched.

HomelessMilkman · 2025-02-20T12:15:48+00:00

How can I build my confidence and overcome my shyness in intimate moments?

It's this. It's having the confidence and assurance in what you're doing to sell it as if it's fun.

There are no right answers, you can easily look up mechnical examples and it's not counter-intuitive enough that you couldn't explore and go with the flow yourself - if you were comfortable and relaxed enough in the moment to do so.

For something to be well-received, you have to believe in it; you have to act with certainty and enthusiasm, you have to act like what you have to offer is of value. It's really about sharing the enthusiasm you have for each other. The only thing we really want is for you to be relaxed, be in the moment and enthusiastic about what you're doing.

Ultimately, it's about becoming comfortable with expressing yourself sexually. There's no 'tricks' to that other than relaxing in the moment and giving yourself the permission to freely express yourself without judgment and hesitation. For sure, you could look at ideas of how to express yourself in those moment but it has to be your authentic presence and enthusiasm that 'sells' it.

farreeddd · 2025-02-20T11:15:05+00:00

Honestly speaking use this shyness to your advantage

As a male, it’s great when we pull out something out of the bag that surprises the girls.

I’d say own upto it, even consider telling him this occasionally.

Impossible-Ground921 · 2025-02-20T04:06:58+00:00

Frankly he might be attracted to your shy and reserved nature. Don’t feel like you need to do too much.

Men like being touched almost anywhere… but me in particular, I enjoy a light touch on my thigh or abs that gradually works its way toward the groin region over a few minutes.

The most important thing about touch is to be in the moment and feel the other persons reaction, experiencing the same emotions as them. Usually less is more… meaning touch lightly so that it is very sensual… almost ticklish. don’t get in your head about it. just imagine how it would feel if you are receiving what you are doing.

You don’t need a step by step guide to seduce your man. He will likely seduce himself. I think just being in the moment and moving slowly toward the end goal. You can tease him more by moving two steps forward and one step back. Also giving him prolonged eye contact while doing something intimate could go a long way. Frankly there isn’t a wrong way to do this… other than going too fast.

Happy to talk more.

crispysnowman · 2025-02-20T17:21:39+00:00

Sit him down, better yet, cuff his hands. Then give him a few funny keywords to say if he likes, dislikes, or feels nothing. Then go to town on him haha you can make a mental note or a physical note of what he likes, and there you have it.

Do this often enough he might end up marrying you lol

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-20T21:20:05+00:00

Ask the guy you’re dating. Like someone else said. I guarantee you he actually finds it hot and would want to teach you. I know I would. There’s something sexy about it.

Title	Improving my make out game
Author	moon_bun0
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	February 20, 2025 3:44 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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