My soon to be ex-wife left and filed over a year and a half ago

At first, obviously I wanted reconciliation, but then slowly came to realize just how much better off I am without her

She still wants to go through with the divorce, allegedly, but she and her lawyer just keep bringing things up to prolong the proceedings .

It’s almost as if, she doesn’t want to be married to me, but also doesn’t really want the divorce

I’m starting to get the feeling that she likes having some modicum of presence in my life where she feels like she still has some kind of control of the situation

Like she knows that once everything is finalized that she won’t have that anymore

Has anyone else experienced this?

It’s the damnedest thing.

Nothing else really makes sense other than the fact that her lawyer obviously isn’t doing her job

I was grief stricken near the beginning, but now I’m just ready to hear the sound of that fucking gavel.