Wife wants a divorce, like yesterday. No good reason related to me.

I sense that she is deeply unhappy in herself and expects me to keep her happy while she uses me as a punching bag with her emotional abuse and lack of affection.

I can tell by her drinking, constant online shopping and addiction to prescription pain killers that there’s more to this than just an unhappy marriage. It’s more of a case of a depressed person with no outlet or interests.

I’m a happy go lucky individual but this is really testing me. I’m still attracted to her despite everything & willing to give everything a go to keep our children in a family unit. I also want her to get better. Today I see her as a hard, cold individual who is reluctant to change.

Could therapy make a difference to make her see her problems and possibly turn the corner?