Imagine this: you get rejected seven times in a row. Seven girls walk past you without even acknowledging your existence. Some don’t even respond, some roll their eyes the moment you try to talk to them. What would you do? How would you react?

I had this exact experience just a few weeks ago. I had taken a short break from approaching because I was visiting my family for a few days. And even for someone like me who has been doing this for a long time - it was tough. That first day back, I was out for my usual evening walk, approaching women, and just getting rejected left and right.

Now most guys? They wouldn’t even get to seven rejections. They would get two, maybe three, and then they would give up. They’d tell themselves, “Ah, today’s just not my day. I’ll try again tomorrow… or next week.” And then nothing would happen.

My mentality was different. I thought, Okay, this is tough. I like this. I embrace challenges. Instead of running away, I leaned into the difficulty. I wanted to see where this was going. In fact, I love these kinds of tough days because I know they teach me the most. So I kept going.

And then I ran into this cute blonde Spanish girl - sweet, outgoing, flirty and just my type. And her reaction? Completely different. She responded positively, we clicked instantly, and we had an amazing conversation. She was smiling, laughing, genuinely enjoying our interaction. And a week later? We went on a date. Then another. And now, a few weeks later, we’re still dating. She’s an amazing, sweet, fun girl, and we’re connecting really well - both emotionally and physically.

And here’s the thing: I wouldn’t have had this experience if I had gone home after those first few rejections. I wouldn’t even have met her.

So what’s the lesson here? Two big ones:

  1. If you give up early, you’re going to miss out on huge opportunities. Most guys stop before they even give themselves a chance to succeed. The key is to keep going, even when it’s hard.
  2. Having the right skills makes all the difference. Even after those seven rejections, my skill set didn’t change. I’ve been doing this for 11 years. When I finally met the right girl, I knew exactly how to lead the conversation, how to flirt, how to create attraction. And because of that, I turned what started as a “bad day” into meeting one of my favourite girls in Spain.

So yeah, next time you're struggling with rejection, remember - it's just part of the process. Keep going, sharpen your skills, and who knows? Your next amazing experience might be just one approach away.

So keep going.