How to be attractive?

Inside_Resolution526 · 2025-04-03T14:39:59+00:00

All these comments sound like so much work. Just be yourself. You can’t smile all the time like a moron and force yourself to be pleasant—that’s not sustainable.

You are who you are, and what I could say as another aspect that makes a woman attractive is her trustworthiness and being attentive/nurturing.

It should be natural though. You don’t wanna go into things like a job you hate just for the money right?

m_spoon09 · 2025-04-01T18:57:18+00:00

Personality goes a long way. Not being rude/argumentative/combative etc. As for looks, men's personal preferences vary widely so there's no one size fits all for attraction.

HalfwaydonewithEarth · 2025-04-01T22:27:38+00:00

Smile and look happy.

Wear earrings. Do your hair. Wear a sundress 7 days a week with cute sandals.

Refrain from tattoos, weird colors, nose rings, and cat costume eyeliner.

Have your nails done and don't wear jeans.

RedPillDad · 2025-04-01T23:33:23+00:00

What is the outcome you want? How you dress and behave can change men's perception of you. Oversimplifying it, Hotties want to be prized, Baddies want to be desired, Boss Babes want to be admired/respected, and Good Girls want to be loved and cherished. And all of them want attention.

The movie Grease offers a playful twist on the 'Good Girl meets Bad Boy' trope, where they temporarily switch roles before both mutually adopting 'baddie' personas. The movie was a breakout for Olivia Newton John, as her music career image was locked into being the Good Girl.

I have a strong bias for Good Girls. The woman I married looks and behaves like ONJ at the start of the movie. Her feminine beauty endures.

Not sure why you want to exclude fitness from the conversation. Men are attracted to youthful beauty (fertility), feminine grace (gentle, soft, loving), fit, fun, friendly, loyal, respectful, cooperative/agreeable, and generous in bed.

Being that Attraction isn't symmetrical, men aren't particularly attracted to power, as indicated by money, muscles and game (confidence, charisma, seductive competence).

The_Gilded_orchid · 2025-04-02T01:27:36+00:00

What are five things you like about yourself? Give a mixture of both personality and physical things.

TheBunk_TB · 2025-04-03T01:34:47+00:00

Don’t be super testy

IbizaMalta · 2025-04-04T10:38:12+00:00

Skirt/dress with nylons and garter.

zurgenfloggin · 2025-04-02T14:17:55+00:00

I recently saw a friend who my wife and I knew 10 years ago. She was married to (now we learn) an abusive husband (I think emotionally not physically). I would have described her as just genetically unattractive. dour face that seems like it featured a permanent frown, needy expressions, just an energy vampire. Saw her again sunday, she had divorced, healed, and was happy and outgoing, smiling. I told her she seemed so much happier and she was. I will say, as a man, she was 10x more attractive being 10 years older, same weight (not fit), but just being happy having fixed life problems.

Now, I hasten to say, being fit will help with your happiness, and guys are very very visual. But, you asked about *other* than being fit, so there. That, by far, is what I have seen.

Figure out how to be fulfilled and happy and it will exude beauty.

Radiant-Use-9447 · 2025-04-01T18:48:23+00:00

radiate charisma and confidence, know your makeup and how you dress, and be open-minded. sounds easy, but it obviously isn't. it's something to strive towards.

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Title	How to be attractive?
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