Labeled as a player

GordonGecko69 · 2025-05-06T19:05:08+00:00

It’s a numbers game. The absolute #1 rule of game is to get over one-itis. Once you do that, everything else is a weapon. Don’t run from the player label. Run towards it. Half of the women will be disgusted. The other half will be intrigued. The second half are your field of battle. Being locked into a single chick who falls in group one will never ever win unless she has a shift in mindset. This can sometimes happen after a breakup or some other trauma that spins her into her “hoe phase”. But it’s rare.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-05-06T19:50:52+00:00

Girls that don't like you for having a player label don't matter. They are just using it as justification to disqualify you.

Girls that do like you for having a player label also don't matter, they will always search for a bigger player.

Girls that respect you for who you are "as is" are the only ones that matter.

BradPdotcom · 2025-05-07T05:00:03+00:00

Hmmm, I just think the number of girls you lose with this label is very low.

I had that label too, the upside was much bigger than the downside.

One big upside is that really hot and confident women often like the challenge of taming a player.

I remember losing a few, but usually they were lower quality.

Cornichonsale · 2025-05-06T19:01:14+00:00

She's pressuring you to make commitment up front. This is a form of gaslighting ... move on she's for the street.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-05-07T01:25:42+00:00

Women are never happy

They don't like the shy nice guys and don't like the asshole guys with lots of confidence. And don't like the "players" with great game and know what they're doing.

cuzimicyspicy · 2025-05-06T23:00:33+00:00

Id rather be acussed of being a player than being ignored etc

VGClementine · 2025-05-07T05:04:04+00:00

Girls always say to me, "You look like you got hoes," or "You look like an F boy." They say all of this, and then proceed to sleep with me. STILL. The majority of women do like a man who can get a lot of girls, or a lot of girls want them. That's just how it is, unfortunately. I used to hate being labeled as that, but it's honestly a compliment in disguise tbh

Purplegalaxxy · 2025-05-06T20:54:10+00:00

Was she wrong tho?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-06T20:54:51+00:00

Correct - if that happens to you it's over.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-05-07T02:55:20+00:00

Ahh yea. Some girls love it like u said. But yea some girls just immedietly reject u. You fit into that box and in their mind it’s evil. You can try to qualify your way out as that’s a loss too. It’s basically a no win situation.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-07T03:30:13+00:00

when they ask you are you a player? you tell her, I can date whoever I want when I m not in a commited relation ,

Tight-Arms · 2025-05-08T20:38:05+00:00

Can you teach me to be one ☝️

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-05-06T21:41:57+00:00

It’s their coping mechanism. Can’t blame them. But in my experience there’s not many of them.

Title	Labeled as a player
Author	santal23
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	May 6, 2025 6:50 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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