Can't even say the truth that there's way more help for women to escape abuse and for women to get access to post-abuse help - therapy, mentorship, employment support, peer support, housing, diagnosis etc that can come from getting recognised as a survivor by any of the healthcare system, social services or charities (usually they all communicate with each other, so if you get your foot in the door with one you can get help from the others, but if you don't get your foot in the door with any it's hard to get help from the others too). Can't even talk about how as a man you more often have to deal with it all yourself, meaning it takes more effort and prolongs life difficulty.

Saying it gets you banned from support subs, pointing out that women can go through less abuse but get more support, or that feminists exercise a double standard between abused women and men (by calling the effects of abuse in men, such as social skills/knowledge or body language issues or social isolation, "entitlement", "must have a bad personality", "unwilling to work on themselves" while with women taking the possibility of trauma or abuse experiences into account, basically treating them as fully human) or that it's sexist to assume men need less support, gets you labelled as misogynistic.