What to text after kissing in a party? Noob question

Louie-dabooty-Hanson · 2025-06-01T18:48:18+00:00

Honestly, keep it breezy. “Hey, I had a great time last night! Sorry my battery died, would you like to hang out later?”

Try not to overthink, you know? Just have fun.

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-01T19:02:37+00:00

Text whatever you want to say. Get rid of the idea of "perfection" because people want to know WHO you are and what your values/world views are.

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-06-01T20:34:22+00:00

Please do not ask her if she enjoyed your company. Please be sure of yourself and your worth. It will help you greatly in all aspects of life, not just seduction.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-06-01T19:55:54+00:00

- "hey, did you enjoy yesterday?"

No... Asking this shows insecurity. Never show insecurity with women, if she has to say it's bad then she will say it on her onw without having to ask her if it was good or bad. If she doesn't bring it up then you don't need to ask her. Just assume it was good, because that's what confident people do.

It's not a girl's job to give you nods of approval or to tell you that you did well, or that you need to improve something. They are not your mom, they are not judges, this ain't an exam, so stop acting like it is one.

As soon as a girl feels that you are auditioning or trying tio prove your worth, it's game over. They will lose interest instantly as soon as they feel that you are trying to earn points or trying to be good enough for them.

Fun_Character1888 · 2025-06-01T18:47:53+00:00

Do not ask her if enjoyed it lmao. Just be casual, make some chit chat, send a meme or something funny and then ask her out for drinks or whatever.

burncushlikewood · 2025-06-01T20:34:27+00:00

In the grand scheme of things it does not matter, as long as you're not being rude, there're a lot of different ways to handle this situation. If you have to ask us...be more confident in yourself

Silly_Randy · 2025-06-02T11:21:51+00:00

"Hey battery died, join me for ___"

That's it.

charlottechewie · 2025-06-02T12:15:53+00:00

Had fun the other night, when can we finish what we started winky face

Nabbzi · 2025-06-04T23:53:18+00:00

Don´t ask her if she enjoyed yesterday because you are a confident man that knows of course she had fun yesterday because you two had a moment.
Just send Hey i had alot of fun yesterday, would you want to meet this week?(don´t mention the kiss. You know you kissed, she knows you kissed, everybody knows you kissed).

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-06-02T11:38:54+00:00

My first text whenever I get a number or IG:

Hey it's your future husband ❤️

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-06-02T19:56:36+00:00

Just ask her on a date. No need to apologize for anything. If you want to reference the kiss (but not necessary), just say you're a great kisser, we should finish what we started. But that could come off as too forward. Just ask her out on a date bro. Not that complicated

chamcham123 · 2025-06-01T21:51:42+00:00

Don’t text anything. Wait a few days or a week. Then send a text with a specific place, date, and time to meet her.

Title	What to text after kissing in a party? Noob question
Author	Beginning_Trust_6615
Upvotes	38
Comments	14
Date	June 1, 2025 6:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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