Currently in the very early stages of getting divorced. I apologize if this has been beaten to death but it’s one of the hardest parts for me both emotionally and psychologically and I need to figure out how to deal with it and keep moving forward. I’m referring to not seeing my 3 kids each and every day like I do now. We discussed having 50/50 custody and being super flexible so I don’t foresee any issues with that. It’s just trying to get used to the idea of not seeing them like I do now in our everyday routine. She’s currently a stay at home mom so she obviously is with them way more than me. I typically see them about 4-5 hours per day after work and for dinner and bed time. Looking for ways to cope. I am almost trying to trick my brain into pretending I’ll be in a business trip during the days I won’t see them. I sometimes travel once or twice a year for a week or so anyway - maybe if I think that way it won’t make it as sad? Ugh this is so frustrating.