How to be more seductive?

Hi I’m a 22 year old (F-Femme) and I’ve been saying my current partner a 36 year old (F- Masc) for about 10 months. When we first met we were having great sex all the time but about 3 months into the relationship our sex started to fizzle out. My gf kept saying that I needed to approach her better about sex, she doesn’t like me directly saying that I want to have sex or trying to kiss her to initiate it. I received that and kept asking her how I could do it the way she wants it. At first she didn’t want to tell me but last month she asked me how I see seduction, I replied that I try to seduce her by cooking her a nice dinner after work, or giving her a massage with oil, or showing genuine interest and care in her hobbies, life and etc. She said that her idea of seduction is me biting my lip and looking at her and me “playing” with myself when she comes into the bedroom. I understand this but I feel a little awkward doing these things. She also made a statement that when finding a partner that you’ll either find one that’s domesticated and can make a house a home i.e she was trying to say this is me or a “freak b****” who will always be trying to please her sexually. She also proceeded to say that she guesses she won’t get both at the same time and that she’ll have to choose one over the other in the beginning. This didn’t offend me it was just irritating because she herself said we have great sex it’s just the getting there because I’m not prudish at all but I can be shy. Once I’m in the act, I think I’m pretty adventurous, I mean I can’t think of anything off the top of my head that we haven’t really tried yet. We’ve done a lot of stuff sexually but I would like to get better at seducing her. There’s also on my end where I feel as if she has these standards for me that she doesn’t hold for herself. Her idea of seducing me has been just kissing me or essentially to just start having sex with me. She’s not really romancing me but I don’t want to be petty and I really would like to seduce her. How can I do this?!

TL;DR! How can I 22 year old (F) get better at seducing my 36 year old (F) partner in a way that she receives it?!