Quick tips/pointers on how to approach in a club?

Level-Bread5827 · 2025-08-02T13:14:06+00:00

Your mindset should be to always have someone you're talking too when you go out. No matter what they look like ect. Once the conversation is over move onto someone else to keep building momentum until you find a girl you like. This is called reaching state. The only way to get over rejection is to either be completely self grounded in yourself and or just keep doing approaches to where you don't care anymore. There's no magic pill

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-08-02T19:59:10+00:00

I stand by the bar and look at the girls make eye contact , smile and then they close the gap then I know I can engage. Women are usually pretty receptive to me I just look for an opportunity to say something.

burncushlikewood · 2025-08-03T02:06:20+00:00

I have my night game formula which I have tried and implemented into every bar or night game situation. Approach girls, talk to them, make friends, bounce around working the room, hit the dance floor, don't be creepy, staring, getting too close, following. Finding the girl I like, making friends with her friends she's with and building rapport, isolating her, escalating with light touches, making a move, give her space, get her number or take her home, always be high energy and have fun, walk around the club slowly, use mystery method to your advantage, be myself, be genuine, be charming, be funny, you know the drill

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-08-02T15:15:22+00:00

Be polarizing in your openers. Either be very direct or be very indirect. You can follow the framework in my post "nightclub guide" which teachers the A - Z on how to succeed using the direct approach. Helpful to beginners and those starting out.

No-Compote-2127 · 2025-08-02T11:12:02+00:00

Let them approach you... Chill around in smoking area, maybe start a talk with guys or girls you have no interest with. Basically be there to have fun time and maybe meet and talk with new people before or inbetween dancing.

Direct approached in general tend to get them into a defensive mode.

Title	Quick tips/pointers on how to approach in a club?
Author	Adventurous_Click667
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	August 2, 2025 11:08 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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