we have a newborn and we do really need all the help we can get, in the process of buying tickets to spend time with my parents, but we cannot agree on the amount of time we go (he works from home, so potentially we could go for months). I know men like their own space, but my parents have a spacious house with a separate bathroom just for us, they are very easy-going and helpful people..
so I am not sure what I can do, we tried speaking about it and he cannot really explain the reason, but he did say maybe if we had a flat nearby he would stay longer - which doesn't really make sense now as my parents would help with the babe and also cook for us.
any ideas on how to persuade him? thanks!