LTR is still friends with 3 guys she has boned, how should I respond to her about this and how to assert my dominance over the other men?

bsutansalt · 2015-11-03T21:56:37+00:00

None of the above. The correct path forward is to realize she's just a plate unworthy of your long-term commitment.

Have fun while you can, but realize she's ultimately not relationship material. If she were she wouldn't have close and continuing contact with ex's she's fucked, all of whom she's keeping around as orbiters.

[deleted] · 2015-11-03T21:54:49+00:00

Next. She doesn't respect you.

[deleted] · 2015-11-04T00:32:04+00:00

Looks like you bought the cow that the village milked for free and the cow is clowning you because of it. Plate or Next.

exilesoul · 2015-11-03T21:49:11+00:00

Fuck the three guys too

2comment · 2015-11-04T02:06:33+00:00

LTR is still friends with 3 guys she has boned, how should I respond to her about this and how to assert my dominance over the other men?

Lift lift lift until you get huge proportions. Then fuck all 3 of them in the ass while staring straight into her eyes.

-rubashov · 2015-11-04T01:15:25+00:00

Downgrade to plate.

/thread.

SpinalArt · 2015-11-03T21:40:23+00:00

Next.

[deleted] · 2015-11-03T21:45:55+00:00

You need to get the fuck away from her ASAP

blacwidonsfw · 2015-11-03T22:40:52+00:00

Unworthy next

Thotwrecker · 2015-11-04T10:43:03+00:00

How does it work out in your mind that you can "assert dominance" over the other dudes who piped the girl who you are taking out to dinners and shit? You need to think straight, if she fucked around with 3 people within a close friend circle, she is a chick getting passed around the crew.

Fucking a lot within a social circle and making a lotta male friends eskimo bros is sign of a thot. You can't LTR that, you can enjoy her as a fun plate or be FWBs, but she has a lot of red flags. Not just the fact she boned the crew, but the fact that she didn't cut ties out of respect to you and even jokes about it with them in public - these should tell you all you need to know about how she views you.

Absorb some juicy j wisdom on this situation: "ho's like doorknobs, everybody gets a turn" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=269S4WgPWOw

insickness · 2015-11-03T21:56:00+00:00

Your first response to bad behavior should be to take away the prize: you. You pull away and, if possible, show her why you're pulling away without explicitly telling her.

In this situation, if she invited me to hang out with her and some of these guy friends, I would decline. If I were with her and they showed up, I would take off and tell her, "Have fun with your friends."

Ideally, she would bring it up and then you could tell her that you're not into her hanging out with her exes. The fact that she would even do this is some indicator that you haven't instilled enough dread in her in the first place. But it is good practice to start now.

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2015-11-03T23:52:51+00:00

A gentlemen's duel is the only course of action

jkonrad · 2015-11-03T22:45:48+00:00

Next obviously, but since you want to work on asserting your dominance then use this scenario as practice.

UndergroundRP · 2015-11-04T11:02:27+00:00

She's making jokes with them while you are there. She doesn't have the tiniest shred of respect for you.

Ditch her completely, as soon as convenient.

Zaorish9 · 2015-11-04T01:01:16+00:00

Drop her and find a more loyal girl. Very worth any short-term awkwardness, trust me.

stillnoturday · 2015-11-04T01:25:02+00:00

unless you want to hear "I fucked your girl" is this one worth being LTR?

BlackHeart89 · 2015-11-04T02:16:42+00:00

The fact that you're asking this suggests that you may fall victim to oneitis for her. Drop her and accept that she is NOT LTR material.

You cannot change these women. This is not a shit test. This is who she is. The fact that she jokes about that shit in your presence means 1 of 2 things. Either she doesnt respect you or she's fucking stupid.

Neither are acceptable.

[deleted] · 2015-11-04T04:03:37+00:00

Lmao dump her bro. Is this a serious question? No dude. That shits NOT cool. Don't let her be a cunt to you.

Thizzlebot · 2015-11-04T06:35:13+00:00

You fucked up by getting in this situation. Abort and vet harder for a higher quality LTR next time.

MorePancakes · 2015-11-04T10:36:49+00:00

Good bye Kuje's LTR. You have run your course.

prodigy2throw · 2015-11-04T11:38:45+00:00

Nigga

[deleted] · 2015-11-04T20:31:50+00:00

Your mentality is wrong, if your SMV is high enough, meaning the way you carry yourself, treat your women, basically being the captain of the relationship, you shouldn't be trying to assert dominance over anyone, that's just a bitch mentality.

Now, your LTR seems like a slut, personally if a woman has regular contact with men she had sex with, while being in an LTR, that just seems like disrespect, more so in your presence.

Besides the fact that she clearly had a FWB type or relationship with three men and they still are in regular contact, in my opinion cutting contact and not talking about past lays for a woman in an LTR is like an unwritten rule.

drlothariothuggut · 2015-11-04T09:33:58+00:00

Next her. She's not worthy of you.

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