Divorce to have freedom. Regrets?

engineered-chemistry · 2025-09-29T20:36:09+00:00

If you can’t see yourself growing old with this woman then take your losses now. You owe it to both of you to really have a candid conversation

Alaskan-Whiskey907 · 2025-09-28T05:24:28+00:00

Tons of fights? Yeah sounds like she wants to pull the cord. The term love can be thrown around by words but what do her actions say? If she is just being a anchor in your life just pulled the cord. Don't listen to anyone always go with your gut.

Pleasant-Mechanic-49 · 2025-09-27T18:27:55+00:00

Normal answer would be: Even in a biased divorce sub, NOBODY will tell you to divorce bc u just "dont love" her , sorry to be blunt.

But with no Kids, if u keep fighting, AFTER with kids, fighting will be 3X worse !

Gattsama · 2025-09-27T08:23:27+00:00

Have you openly, directly, and even brutally discussed what's going on with you with your wife? Have you sat her down and without confrontation or anger? Explained your wants, hopes, dreams, common actions that you desire for your best life? How is being married to her limiting these things?

No insult but only boring people get bored. What is going on in the mirror to stops you from doing the things that you feel you want to do? The most common answer ultimately ends up being oneself. Yes, they say fear of their wife's response, she might leave me, there might be fights, etc. But they don't actually talk to her about it, they just do this based off previous history .

And while that makes sense, you owe it to her okay, yourself, in the marriage; to be brutally honest first before you consider termination. If there is the possibility of growth, expansion, and possibly love and understanding; that is clearly the better choice than divorce.

UnreadChapter · 2025-09-27T06:35:14+00:00

Oh, if only to have a woman that “loves me dearly”.

No-Specialist4150 · 2025-09-27T05:51:43+00:00

Stay with her bro. Grass isnt greener on the other side, its same grass lol. First divorce will suck ( financially & emotionally) & then dating in Canada will suck more. Also you are in ur late 30s, only women u will find to date will be single mothers or toxic leftover women.

Boredom is not the reason to seek divorce. Also u said she loves u, love is hard to find these days.

NotUsedUsernameYet · 2025-09-27T05:28:46+00:00

What culture are you from? Asking because you mentioned arranged marriage. What makes you thinking you will be successfully dating in Canada in your current age?

Title	Divorce to have freedom. Regrets?
Author	Odd-Side-7151
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	September 27, 2025 4:07 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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