Basically, I was like the infamous Elliot Rodger (minus killing people), that I was led to believe only guys with tall six-pack abs with 6-figures in their banks are the only one's able to attract women.

I'm a conventionally-attractive guy myself who works out, has a house, owns a vehicle, and I believed women will throw themselves at me. It didn't work. Sure, I already got the hard part down, but that's only half of the battle when charming women. Elliot Rodger himself was a good-looking guy raised from a very wealthy household. Surely, he can score any woman he wants right? Nope. This guy died a virgin and never having a girlfriend, and he had to kill random people too out of bitterness. He's a creep thorough and thorough and women no longer care if he's rich or not. Oof!

Another example would be the infamous serial killer Richard Ramirez - ugly SOB with rotting teeth, no money, smells bad, a thief, a predator, a PDF, with even horrible vices. Guess what? He got sent thousands of nude photos from women in prison, he even managed to CHARM one of the JURIES in his trial, for pete's sake! and one he eventually married. One thing you can truly admire about serial killers is their supreme confidence in themselves, they embrace their evilness and their monstrosity, they know what they want and they will get it no matter what, even if it breaks society's norms. And we also find them interesting, right? We want to get inside their minds.

Unlike Elliot, instead of blaming society, I worked on my personality, asked guys who are experts at women, took notes on what to do and what NOT to do. Basically, why do the girls we do NOT want desire us while the women we want would never even bat us an eyelash? Well, it's because when you are conversing with women you don't like, you are completely indifferent, you are teasing her, you are being playful with her, you do NOT fear her reactions, in other words, you are being your authentic self. Meanwhile, when you are conversing with women you desire, you sweat, you stutter your words, you make sure NOT to offend her, you make sure that everything goes well and think "I must NOT mess up because this is my only chance!", in other words, you are NOT being your true self, you are simply putting on an act and the bad news is women can SENSE this. There's a good reason why women always fall for "bad boys" not because they're actually BAD, but because they do NOT fear women, in fact, a lot of them see women as inferior to them and they always prioritize extreme selfishness and narcissism. The bad boy will tease and insult a woman, call it having a sense of humor, and women usually laugh and gets charmed quickly (women LOVE a man with sense of humor). And in the rare case that the woman gets offended, the bad boy doesn't care either, he'll just say "You lack sense of humor and we won't get along. Bye!" and goes to find another woman.

Plus, we always see average guys who don't have six-pack abs and have no money dating hot gorgeous women all the time. Even a simple waiter at Mcdonald's can score a hot woman if he wants to. Guys you wouldn't touch with a ten-foot pole (I'm friends with some of these guys), I even know someone who looks SO old (he's in his late 30s but he looks like he's in his late 60s with graying hair, my own dad actually looks BETTER) but his wife is actually a model who's in her late 20s. They've been together for 5 years and are now expecting a baby. And no, he's not attractive either because even he knows he's isn't attractive, very far from it. He doesn't have six-pack abs either (he's actually overweight), he's definitely NOT a millionare and is a photographer so he just makes decent money. You have to take note that his wife is a MODEL, a damn MODEL! Meaning this woman is surrounded by hot guys, millionares and high-class elite men all the time who are all vying for her attention, and yet he chose HIM over all of them. Most definitely this guy has amazing personality. Most women complain that most high-class elite men and good-looking guys they meet have empty personalities and think they can get a girl just by flaunting their looks and money. Plus this guy and her model wife already have a LOT in common, so that means they already have that connection so that also helps.

Also, this guy is so confident, and he's so comfortable in his own skin that when he takes pictures of himself with his wife, he sometimes says that he looks like some kind of uncle (most likely joking about the fact that he looks SO OLD compared to his wife) when taking pictures with wife while laughing hysterically, and his wife always end up laughing too. This guy isn't a creep too. Whenever he approaches women, they seemed to instantly like his company the moment he steps in their area. Whenever we hang together, he always smells nice and always make sure his breath is fresh and his hands clean. And when approaching women, he approaches with the intent of getting to know a woman, he doesn't think about sex or relationship at all because trust me, women can SENSE that whenever you approach them so stop thinking about your d*cks for a second and focus on genuine social interactions with women. He embraces the fact that he's unattractive and has no problem going around with it. This guy doesn't compete with other guys, he doesn't have to, why would he? He's already comfortable in himself, and he has amazing set of friends too and we are all happy for him and his wife.

So thanks for hearing this. I hope this would inspire more men to be their authentic selves! Good luck to you all!