I was scrolling a dating app and I found a girls dating profiles and she said FWB, and provided her IG. I liked her profile sent a message and I also sent her a message on IG. I told her she's cute and would like to get to know her. She responds 2 days later and says ty, and what am I looking for. I reply back saying im not looking for anything serious and something fun and casual. She answer: ah okay, then said she's just looking for FWB. to which I agreed and we begin talking.

The next day she tells me where she is located but not the address, she wants me send her a penis Pic, I refused because I haven't met her in person yet. She goes into how much we're going to have a great time. Then I ask her for an address, no response, I ask maybe it's better we meet at a mutual location, again no response.

My friends who are more active than me tells me its too good to be true, ask to verify her by placing a shoe next to their head or face time. You know something silly to make sure you're not being scammed. Both of which she refused, the night of the event she ghosted me. She said its odd behavior, I told her I was hurt before I wanted to make sure so we're both safe.

Later I told her sorry it didn't work out. Have a good life, and goodbye. She retorts that it was not fair for me to assume she was a scammer, my past experience killed my chances and that she was going to give me a great time. Did I do right or did I messed up my chances?

As a guy, I just feel that there is so much to loose if I think from my groin vs my brain. Your thoughts would be appreciated.

For context I'm 40 M, she's mid twenties.