You guys get so focused on sex being a sign that you won. That the girl likes you. That you will live forever happily with this girl. That you can brag to your friends.

You ever heard of pity sex? You ever thought maybe you wore her down so much that now she’s gonna give you a chance and just hope that you’re good in bed? You ever thought she’s just really horny? You ever thought she felt unsafe and didnt wanna say no? You ever thought shes was bored and said why the hell not? You ever thought she wanted to get back at an ex?

Sex by itself means nothing.

Its her having sex with you on YOUR OWN ACCORD that means something. That means when you want it, how you want it. So when you tell her let’s have sex, she agrees. When you tell her drive over to me to have sex, she agrees. When you tell her i don’t wanna go on dates and she agrees. When you tell her to suck your dick, she agrees. When you tell her to bend over, she agrees. Thats when it all means something.

A lot of you guys follow pussy around, begging to have sex and only having sex WHEN SHE WANTS TO. WHEN SHE DECIDES IT’S TIME TO HAVE SEX. WHEN SHE DECIDES YOU ARE WORTHY ENOUGH. That’s not an accomplishment. She is using you and looks at you as beneath her because you demonstrate to her that you value pussy above yourself.

Start loving yourself guys. Walk away from girls who are not highly sexually attracted to you or at the very least don’t treat them seriously by giving them your time and attention.