How was your progress?

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-11-11T13:53:27+00:00

Grew up with a super conflict avoidant, people pleasing, and socially awkward dad so naturally I picked up the same personality traits. Wasn't until my last year of high school that I realized I needed to change who I was if I wanted to get girls. Started by reading some seduction books and changing up my look.

However, everything really changed when I changed my environment. Went on exchange in Europe for a year when I was 20 which allowed me to start fresh and implement everything I had learned and practiced in the years prior. Was the best year of my life at the time.

After that, I made it my mission to become a nomad/traveler so after I graduated uni, that's exactly what I did. Went back to Europe for 2 years and got better and better year over year. However it wasn't until the age of 28 that I finally cracked the 1 new girl a week barrier, sleeping with 52 in one year.

From there, I just kept boosting my numbers until I finally cracked 100 in a year at the age of 31. Online dating is my main source, I've pretty much fully optimized the process with it, but social game is also pretty big for me too. I'm at the point now where most of my first dates end in sex and I'm dating some of the coolest girls. Basically achieved the dream that 18 year old me always wanted.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-11-11T15:26:36+00:00

Started years ago . Had a catastrophic break up I high school that left me crippling with approach anxiety. Then discovered pick up. Tried for two three years to approach, resulting in hit or miss scenarios, often walking around doing nothing and so on. So got nothing besides a couple of drunk kisses in night game. Finally figured out what I was doing wrong last year and this has been the best year of my life so far. Better job, moved to another country, got intimate with 17 new women , all from daygame, got proposed a few times, went on holiday across the world, just grateful. Main thing is to not be stubborn. If you ajeb been doing the same thing for a long time with no results, fix your strategy.

CraPixelArt · 2025-11-11T18:38:21+00:00

mid 20s broke up w/ ex and moved to nyc last year. got into fashion. built a huge friend network before downloading the apps this summer. get so many more matches (and they're attractive, varying subcultures, and I date any race but finally I can date people of my minority group 😭) than I did in a red state suburb

2 months of awkward interview dates -> started reading this sub + dating a bunch (up to 5x/wk) = got good at fun and flirty dates -> started sleeping on some first dates -> got a fwb last month -> had my first threesome last week, and we're doing it again next week

it's going pretty good. moving to nyc really opened the floodgates of opportunity in terms of self growth and being more social, confident, happier. best year of my life so far. gonna cut down on dating (don't have the time/money anyways) and focus on gym, hobbies, and making next year an even better year

becomesharp · 2025-11-11T09:34:31+00:00

Started in the early 2000s when I was a 5'4" Asian virgin in my 20s who had never held a girl's hand. Painfully shy and socially awkward.

Was voted "nicest boy" in jr high. Never went to prom because no one would go with me. Graduated high school without a single girl ever liking me in 13 years of schooling.

Thought it was absolutely hopeless and I would die alone until I found mASF.

Put the reps in, started to make improvements, got recruited to be a coach, got even better, checked off every dating experience I ever wanted to have, created my own company, found my dream girl, and she and I have been running our company together ever since.

TemperatureNovel7668 · 2025-11-11T04:09:32+00:00

I've been learning this stuff on and off for a while but only started trying to implement it irl recently. Was making good progress but for some reason I've just been kinda depressed the past few weeks and haven't' gone out at all. I need to get back out there.

No_Professor1089 · 2025-11-11T18:47:39+00:00

Started a few months back and now I did 2 approached today, I need to ramp up the numbers but I'm very selective but hoping to get to 10 approaches per day soon

Creative-Big-128 · 2025-11-12T06:25:12+00:00

I only approached 3 times in this year, all day time and casual atmosphere . All approaches are now ongoing FWB. Girls are between 7/10 to 9/10.

Title	How was your progress?
Author	Mengunio
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	November 11, 2025 12:51 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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