I wish I could just be upfront about liking a girl

therealslimshady1234 · 2025-11-18T10:57:53+00:00

I have the opposite, girls always want a long term relationship with me. Getting casual sex is far harder for me.

Do you give off fuccboi vibes perhaps ?

Davus_P · 2025-11-18T17:56:07+00:00

"Please help me, my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery"

Vegetable_Anty · 2025-11-18T11:56:48+00:00

Maybe they sense the emotional investment and get scared?

thesockson · 2025-11-18T12:07:43+00:00

Seems like you’re attracting more casual-minded people. Try changing approach?

Bigballerway93 · 2025-11-18T19:26:45+00:00

I have similar issues. When I want casual, I attract the opposite. When I want long term, the women I attract don’t want that. Idk what to make of it so I’m giving up for now

amf1015 · 2025-11-19T02:52:28+00:00

This, the minute they think you "like" them, it's over, every girl I ignored and didn't like would double text me asking to hang out 🤷🏻‍♂️ but the girl I'm actually interested in senses im having fun and ghosts after that

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-11-19T14:20:27+00:00

I was the same but a bit older girls would just fuck or not want to be viewed as a slut so they fuck me 4 different days and say they want to be just friends and ghost after that... my advice is just don't frame for sex right away most likey the date might be boring and she ax you for being to boring and safe lol ... you cant win with women just have fun lol

Title	I wish I could just be upfront about liking a girl
Author	WoodenHuckleberry693
Upvotes	25
Comments	19
Date	November 18, 2025 10:53 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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