So how much volume?

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-31T03:35:56+00:00

If I wanted to approach, I’d probably approach no more than 1 or 2.

DefeatTheUp · 2026-01-31T06:10:47+00:00

It’s better to have a meaningful conversation than to rush through approaches.

Interviewpalm · 2026-01-31T09:21:59+00:00

probably the same as day game. The best in the world used to claim 1 lay from 35 approaches (tom torerro, krawser etc)

But these are guys who have taught game for like 15 years. Lived it as their life and source of income. So probably best not to expect them numbers.

But theh, you can change the odds massively based on how you look, and how the girls look in comparison

Them guys were both average at best, and typically went for girls a bit hotter and younger than them (so kind of hard mode)

epimpstyle · 2026-01-31T10:10:45+00:00

Talking about "volume" is extremely superficial. It’s like asking how many attempts Michael Jordan needs to score a basket. Probably one or two. But a beginner who has never shot a basketball in his life will obviously need many more attempts. It’s about experience in choosing the right target, you don’t just go talk to every woman you see, that;s insane.

If you are in a small place and you get rejected many times, other women will notice it, at that point you’re cooked. They’ll reject you too, it’s the herd effect "if others didn’t want you, then I don’t want you either".

Budget-Kick822 · 2026-01-31T03:41:34+00:00

You could approach 4 women in half an hour

dontcarfan · 2026-01-31T04:07:42+00:00

I have a sales perspective for you:

There are 3 main variables to consider here: 1. Context, 2. Volume, and 3. Approach. You should assess your situation in that order.

Context: are you going and meeting women in contexts where they are pre qualified?

What do I mean by pre qualified? Are the places that you are going to attracting people who are single and who are open to be approached? It’s not the same thing to walk up to a woman at a library reading a book vs a woman at a bar who is dressed up for the occasion and is with her friends.

In the first context the likelihood that she will be receptive to your advancements is low. In the second contexts it’s not 100% that she will be, but it’s a hire likelihood that she is given the contexts. Bars are known for getting picked up, flirted, and meeting people in general for future dates.

So ask yourself: is this the best location to meet receptive women / women who are looking to meet guys?

If it’s the case, move on to volume. Don’t think of it as “I’m going to approach 5 women tonight” think of it as “I’m going to approach until I get 1 lead”.

The first mindset is great if you need it to step out of your comfort zone. I myself use that mindset to cold approach in random places. But if you’re looking for results, you’re better served thinking with the latter. It’s just a numbers game, it’s going to be difficult to have 0 results if you’re approaching 20+ women in a night.

However, this brings me to the 3 variable: approach.

If the first two variables check out, then you have to assess your approach. If you are approaching women in the right context and are talking to 20+ women and you have no results, it could be an issue of how your talking to them, how you start the conversation, what vibes you give off, how you smell, how you are dressed, how well groomed you are etc.

Out of all those, the hardest to assess and nail down would be conversation and vibe. Those two you kind of just have to struggle doing trial and error to see what works for you. What works for me is being the interesting cultured guy who makes fun of what they say (when it’s dumb) and engage in light hearted debate. Once I see that they are respective and having fun I turn up the heat and start flirting etc. This works for me because of my personality and lived exp. You have to find what works for you. I have a friend who is super direct and sometimes opens with “so are you submissive or what”. That works for him, but would not work for me.

If need be make a script / template to build off of. Keep adapting it after you get some feedback from your exp.

Hope this helps

Edit: also consider that if you’re at a small bar approaching 20+ women, other women might notices. Consider going with a friend and don’t make it come across as you being there just to pick up women.

Title	So how much volume?
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Date	January 31, 2026 3:30 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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