Is lunch dates/ during the day dates good for a first date?

norwegiandoggo · 2026-03-26T13:04:08+00:00

Lunch dates / day dates are the best, because they are easier to agree to. So if you want more women to go on dates with you, then it's better.

You might say it's more difficult to convert a day / lunch date to sex. But it's not that much difference in my experience. Still doable.

Key-Proud · 2026-03-26T09:00:40+00:00

Define your lay location first (alley way, your car, near your place ... etc) reverse engineer multiple locations to get there.

- Multiple locations example:

-> lunch -> book store (quickly look at a book) -> desert/coffee -> pick something up at grocery store near your place -> drop food at your place

or -> chill at a park near the washroom you can bang her

or -> know an alley way you can park your car at

the more locations = more memory of you = more trust and comfort.

- one location vs 4 different location means 4 more different memories of you = trust and comfort increases

- Instead of arriving separately at a location ... bouncing to multiple location makes you arrive together.

Why limit your self in the darkness ... are you hiding your face lol?

qeriate · 2026-03-26T13:07:14+00:00

Imo, no, just do an evening first date and try to escalate on the first date. What’s the worst that could happen?

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2026-03-26T14:26:26+00:00

It’s totally a style thing. I’m a night person so a lunch date would put me in a different state of mine than I’m used to. Judging by this thread it’s something I should add to my repertoire

Cavsfan724 · 2026-03-26T14:42:41+00:00

I think they are better for dating/seeking a relationship. Not as much for seduction.

dobbs1997 · 2026-03-26T16:39:31+00:00

you can very well have dates in the day and still have it lead to sex , you just gotta know how to guide and lead it to that point ..

Youcandoit-1111 · 2026-03-26T05:22:25+00:00

YES! The fact you asking the question worry me of your level of game.

Dress very well for lunch date.

Make fun of her and have mega fun yourself.

Tell her about places you go to and things you like to try. Tease her for a bit

Tell her to join you for one of your activities or the bar you want to check.

Set date and time or tell her you will text her details later.

Meet her and close.

Thank me later.

P.s I assumed it’s on your lunch break from work. But anyway the key is to have mega fun yourself

Title	Is lunch dates/ during the day dates good for a first date?
Author	breaktheice7
Upvotes	14
Comments	9
Date	March 26, 2026 4:02 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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