Asking her what she likes

CoachSlyDating · 2026-04-06T15:25:00+00:00

She doesn’t wanna talk about it logically. It’s for you to figure out and deliver. She might not even know what she really likes until she discovers it with you.

You can ask for her feedback after the deed. “what was your favorite part?” Notice - I did not ask about what she didn’t like or what could be better. Act as if you did the everything perfectly and as intended.

V3X390 · 2026-04-06T16:52:47+00:00

First off, not every girl can finish from penetration. Full stop. Second, almost every girl can finish from clit stimulation. Third, you will need a lot of practice and feedback working on the clit. Best to start now

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-06T15:27:16+00:00

You don't. A woman is usually about receiving, not dominating. Think about what you want and do that to her. That's it. Stop trying to get it out of her (unless you met on a bdsm forum, chances are she doesn't know). Simply agree on a green/yellow/red light system beforehand so that she could always tell you to stop or slow down or keep going.

A cool thing to do is to write a few sexual scenarios and read it together to see her response, then act it out in real life. It's a good way to lead a girl to a threesome as well. Start small with fantasies, use props like bdsm toys or porn. A cool thing I did once was push a girl's face into the screen as it showed a girl's big tits up close. It's fun for me, hot for her because I'm dominating her and doing whatever I want to her. If she's not into it, she can tell you and all you've got to do is switch to something else that's a bit more safe and vanilla without getting upset. There are lots of fun things to do during sex, you just gotta learn what makes it fun for YOU.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-04-06T17:37:09+00:00

Did you go down on her? This is the easiest way to please a woman with limited experience

Miss_Galoldriel · 2026-04-06T18:41:03+00:00

In regard to the orgasm:

As many have said already: Focus on eating her out. However, don't focus solely on the clit all the time. There's a wider area to work on. Build it up slowly, take your time and get her going by teasing her. A lot of men seem to think that the clit is a magical button, but what really does the trick, is anticipation. Give her a little taste of what's coming (pun intended), and when she's all worked up, go all in. And very importantly: If she tells you to keep going like that, don't change anything.

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-04-06T18:44:22+00:00

When you're in bed with her, put all your attention on her face and body and feelings and breath. Begin to explore your desire with her, going where you want. But always watching her with gentle attention. Be patient, and go slowly, feeling into her desire and her pleasure, working with it, expanding it and filling her with it. If she suddenly hardens up, then slow down further, or back up a bit. You can do all sorts of things, and if you watch her closely, you can ensure that she's consenting. Or at least, if you go a bit too far, you'll stop before you really go too far. And if you really go too far, don't defend yourself. Just apologize, listen to what she says and how she's feeling, and learn from it.

Maleficent-Fix-9159 · 2026-04-06T22:01:51+00:00

I like flowers

Back2theCouture · 2026-04-06T15:39:36+00:00

If you want her satisfied, I’d just finger and lick her pussy until she cums before you rail her. In my experience most women prefer doggie style as they’re getting a deeper thrust. Least favorite? Woman on top lol. They don’t wanna do the work.

Sea_Independent_9511 · 2026-04-06T17:59:33+00:00

Aver cayó fácil quieres como amiga con derechos por que eres guapo atractivo no se pero el arquetipo que escoge ella pero quieres saber más de ella como novia que te pasa que quieres novia o amiga con derechos. Esa obio qué tienes más experiencia que voz dile después del acto qué opina algo que mejorar comunicación. Pero al ella misma ya te dijo solo jugar es una perfecional por que quieres saber maa de ella no es tu novia solo juega y fin.

Title	Asking her what she likes
Author	Chance_Equivalent_22
Upvotes	11
Comments	40
Date	April 6, 2026 3:14 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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