I'm currently going through it, all the emotional roller-coaster and whatever bs comes with it. Hopefully all goes smoothly and we should finalise next month. Now this isn't about me...

Last year, a friend(M38) of mine got divorced, has 3 kids with his ex. About 2 months ago he met a young lady whose 11 years younger than him, within a few weeks he introduced her to the kids, which I think was way too early... Anyway, yesterday I met him and he was excited and showed me his new tattoos, two names on each bicep, that shook me as I recognised the 3 kids' names but not the fourth name, so I asked who's name that was and it's the new girl's, OMG 🫠

I know I cannot tell him anything at this point as he's been a friend for just almost a year and he's in cruise control.

Am I being too judgemental or do most people see the problem here?