How to get better at bar game? And day game? I’m good at everything else but bar game I and day game I don’t know how to stat the conversation.

johnny-faux · 2026-04-17T22:20:17+00:00

“the open is accidental, everything else is on purpose”

but ive gotten laid just going up and saying hi. youre overthinking it my friend. if youre having success at other places, just keep a canned opener like “i saw you and wanted to say hi” or “youre really pretty, i had to say hi to you”. if youre doing well at other venues, then just make the opener as basic as possible. opener is the least important part of game imo. ive had chaotic openers and terrible openers transition to a great set lol

jackthehat6 · 2026-04-17T22:22:03+00:00

I used to overthink this a lot, but over thousands of approaches, I kind of realised that almost everything will work if

1/she is somewhat attracted to you and

2/she is a naturally social, talkative person who doesn't mind speaking to strangers (my wingman got like 3 straight 'I don't talk to randoms' the other night. UK for ya! haha)

costwy55 · 2026-04-17T22:57:40+00:00

I feel like observational comment is best at bars- ie that drink looks good, cool shoes, it's busy in here, shit like that.

burncushlikewood · 2026-04-18T00:24:54+00:00

So the story with that tall girl, don't worry about women can be tough sometimes, maybe she's just rude or she's having a bad day, I think openers are generally pretty straightforward, just make a comment about something and enter the conversation with high energy, ask questions and be charming

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-18T10:01:11+00:00

Don't over complicate it. Read Always talk to strangers

Secret_Meringue7240 · 2026-04-17T23:02:35+00:00

I need girl

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