Do we just let erections happen when there's intense sexual tension?

thealt3001 · 2026-04-19T16:07:59+00:00

Standing beside them for less than a minute? Jesus christ dude.

Making out with them or in bed alone yeah I let it fly. But just standing there in public? Bruh

Quartrez · 2026-04-19T16:15:23+00:00

I mean, erections can happen at any time, you don't even have to be horny.

However your whole story about sexual/spiritual connection is weird.

soupondaroof · 2026-04-19T16:12:57+00:00

You’re suggesting that standing next to a woman you’ve never met or spoken with, or had any interaction with will give you an “intense supernatural erection”?

And you’re doing this in public?

If you’re not trolling and you’re actually stood there with a hard on next to random women in the street, then you should speak to someone before you find yourself on the sex offenders registry.

The fact you think this is some weird sexual connection between auras and not just desperation/inexperience on your part is pretty strong evidence you’ve never actually spoken to a woman, never mind fucked one. You would know this is weird if you had. So I really think you need to tone it down and understand they’re just people. You’re gonna get yourself in trouble dude, it’s very weird.

Red-ManIII · 2026-04-19T16:31:54+00:00

What are you talking about man 😂 Some of you guys need to spend less time on reddit

Nugget834 · 2026-04-19T16:32:06+00:00

Just because you feel a surge in sexual desire and sexual energy doesn't mean you'll get an erection right then and there?!

If this is happening and you are getting an erection right away, I think you need to look into some tantric practices to move the sexual energy up and away from your groin and around your body.

Look into uddiyana bandha for this.

https://youtu.be/57qZYLPTAhw?si=LsuIGzIKK1wyD135

They suck at first.. But they're so good if you're wayy too horny or have blue balls..

Do 10 in a row and you'll see what I mean

AlienCopulator · 2026-04-19T17:34:13+00:00

“Intense supernatural erection” 😂. I’m fucking dead man

Poodle_Thrower · 2026-04-19T17:05:51+00:00

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sm0089 · 2026-04-19T20:08:15+00:00

If it's just a subtle bulge instead of a very obvious tent, I think it's fine. However, just act completely normal and busy. If you try to think or focus too much on it, it can attract attention and make it awkward.

trdcr · 2026-04-19T16:17:54+00:00

What exactly are you asking us? If should you ask her for sex after one minute?

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-04-19T16:53:04+00:00

There’s nothing to be ashamed of, but also know that it’s not publicly acceptable. So be a gentleman and don’t go waving it around.

Your interpretations based on soul mates and all that are nonsense that you can believe because you didn’t talk to the women. All it means is that there was some chemistry in your animal body, which is great!

So you’re tuned into the chemistry. Pay attention to it. That’s an important signal! Next time, talk to her. And if she’s closed off, press a little bit. If she starts closed, back off. You’ll find that chemistry with others.

thetimeisripe · 2026-04-19T17:56:14+00:00

First thing to address: Get off the fantasy train…you need to be brought back down to earth. No such thing as supernatural energy and erections for a “soul mate”. Doesn’t exist, sorry

Second thing: yes it’s perfectly okay to get an erection in public with someone. Don’t bring it up to them unless you’ve already been intimate with them or around them long enough that she’d be comfortable to hear that. From my experience, women actually may find it somewhat endearing AFTER you’ve established a stronger connection with them

jadorebby_ · 2026-04-19T18:17:04+00:00

Tf did I just read 💀

norwegiandoggo · 2026-04-19T18:23:13+00:00

No, you should hide them. Put that thing away bro. Wear a long t-shirt or something. It's not appropriate to just show people your boner in public.

personal_cheezits · 2026-04-19T18:35:17+00:00

I mean I’ve been dicked so good my soul left my body, but I’ve never thought to call them supernatural erections.

Matter_Still · 2026-04-19T22:08:02+00:00

Not only "intense"--which I understand--but what is a "supernatural erection", and if it happens generally how does it imply the inspiration for your supernatural erection is a soulmate, since in 10 minutes you can have another supernatural erection with another natural woman?

I'm no expert on the occult, but I think there's a natural explanation for what is likely garden-variety tumescence of your dick, which is commonly called a "boner", and which was first referenced in the Boy Scout's Handbook of 1940.

Idol_Four · 2026-04-19T16:47:36+00:00

If this isn't trolling, you have some issues there my friend. 100% not normal.

Title	Do we just let erections happen when there's intense sexual tension?
Author	Neurometabolism
Upvotes	0
Comments	41
Date	April 19, 2026 4:03 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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