How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?

norwegiandoggo · 2026-04-23T17:34:22+00:00

It's usually solved partially by just trying to get them into bed sooner. Before they really like your personality on a deeper level.

How long does it typically go before you try to get them into bed? The sooner you try, the more you're communicating through actions that you're a fuckboy, not boyfriend material.

dbootywarrior · 2026-04-23T18:14:02+00:00

I dont think height has anything to do here. Im 5'4 and I find that many women are willing to fuck over a relationship. But im also jacked and flirtatious, i think light sex jokes are helpful as well

bonvoysal · 2026-04-23T19:47:27+00:00

My roommate in college was 5'4, had a big d!ck and he made sure people knew. How? Biker shorts. I mean, i had to exit the room every week b/c there was some girl knocking at the door late at night b/c as he said, they wanted to ride the 10 in anaconda! He was also hilarious!

If you weren't blessed with an anaconda, then next best step is to become a comedian. I'm not funny at all, and I had to learn to be funny. Why? Because my ex-colleague was bold, 5'5, and I saw picked up women every time we went out. Why? Because they thought he was funny. So i learned, if you make women laugh to the point that they pee on their pants, height, looks don't matter! If I learned to be funny, i think most males can do the same. It took me a lot of practice and trial and error. Sure, i wasn't like the short funny dude, but it helped me a lot to be funny.

Final choice, make lots of money.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-23T20:02:32+00:00

Display R selection. Mystery Method and Daygame Mastery by Krauser talk about that in detail.

sirensoflove · 2026-04-24T11:10:12+00:00

This is hilarious because I was talking to this short player (I’m also short) who clubs all the time and complains the girls only want to hookup because he’s not tall enough to be bf material, meanwhile he’s telling me about this girl who got mad cuz he left Florida all of a sudden when she was trying to string him in a relationship 🤣

But bro I think it’s more of the energy you give off because every girl I’ve been with thinks I’m a player or something and assume I just want to hookup

Nikalinov · 2026-04-24T12:33:31+00:00

cooked gngg

Lacunaethra · 2026-04-23T18:23:13+00:00

This is a common issue and happens to many men with a good personality, regardless their height.

You can't do really more than stating your disinterest in a monogamous relationship early on. Like, more in the subtext at the beginning, don't throw it into her face.

EveningBeginning3922 · 2026-04-24T14:22:00+00:00

You must to be a good guy at the %99 of your relationships as a short guy If you arent handsome and rich.

Otherwise must to be manuplative and funny.

It will be harder for you than average If you are under the aveeage.

Literally_Autistic · 2026-04-24T23:59:23+00:00

Be a drug dealer lmao

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-04-24T03:25:32+00:00

Why is everyone obsessed with hookups? Hookups are usually 2nd rate sex, guys.

Look for women that you at least want to date for a few weeks, even though you both sort of know it’s not going anywhere.

Adept-Obligation-265 · 2026-04-23T18:18:23+00:00

Can I ask your height?

Title	How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?
Author	nuckingfuts0
Upvotes	35
Comments	44
Date	April 23, 2026 5:30 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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