Most child SA are committed by men!

YourEnemiesDefineYou · 2026-05-23T17:54:54+00:00

One fact we are sure of is that most infanticide (baby killing) is done by women not men. Mention this in a gender argument and see how hard they try to defend those women and make excuses for them they would never apply to a man.

BelCantoTenor · 2026-05-23T21:34:03+00:00

The frequency of reporting with male SA is significantly less. With adult and child cases. No one takes it seriously. When I was a child, I told my mom and dad I was SA by a woman. My mom said “what do you want ME to do about it?” And my dad just laughed at me and made jokes. It’s never taken seriously. We are just labeled as weak and asking for it. Sound familiar?

sakura_drop · 2026-05-23T22:34:17+00:00

Michele Irmiter Elliott OBE (born 1946) is an author, psychologist, teacher and the founder and director of child protection charity Kidscape. She has chaired World Health Organization and Home Office working groups and is a Winston Churchill fellow.

Elliott, who had previously written books about male abuse of children, has undertaken pioneering work in investigating and raising awareness of the problem and extent of child sexual abuse committed by women, and the topic of female paedophilia, publishing the book Female Sexual Abuse of Children The Last Taboo in 1992. The book was well received by professionals and survivors' organisations. Mike Lew described it as "an important and challenging work", helping "to forge a new understanding of the issues". Doody's annual stated it was "an extremely valuable book for all professionals, and it greatly increases the current state of knowledge, or lack of that knowledge, that can have a profound influence on the survivor's development and recovery".

Elliott's work in exposing the issue of child sexual abuse committed by women has also resulted in hostility from feminists. While compiling Female Sexual Abuse of Children, Elliott organised a conference in London concerning sexual abuse by women. After publishing the book, Elliott was subject to a "deluge" of hate mail from feminists.

One example of many...

saiditonredit · 2026-05-23T20:36:01+00:00

What they never focus on is how much of this is conducted by repeat and chronic offenders that comprise the total stats as opposed degree of the populace who commits or is even capable of committing such offense. While I don't suspect this a very large percentage of the statistics and it be interesting to know, it's still worth mentioning that girls who guy on to lie about their age and deceive men has to be more prevalent than boys who lie about their ages to adult women, and again if that even gets reported or counted due to double standards.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2026-05-23T18:40:19+00:00

More to the point, though- so what? Even if it IS true, that hardly justifies punishing innocent people. I mean, most murder is committed by someone the victim knows; does that mean you should only hang around strangers?

MonsterGirls4ever · 2026-05-24T05:12:51+00:00

As per a widdom and morris study, which specifically took a sample of known and DOCUMENTED (arrest records and convictions) cases of victims of CSA, 16% of male victims and 64% of female victims will disclose. That's out of a sample SELECTED FOR 100% victims both ways. So here and there, we know women report 4 times as often as men.

Though the very stringent selection criteria (only proven cases, as attested by a judicial decision) could very well inflate the reporting rate, which I would assume (just a semi educated guess on my part, don't preach it like gospel) would inflate male reporting rates more.

EnterprisingGent1701 · 2026-05-24T14:23:11+00:00

I'm a survivor of female and male perpetrated child sexual abuse, and none of the so-called "trusted adults" believed me when I tried to tell them about imy mother. On the flip side, my mother, the abuser, who was ultra feminist, didn't believe me about my great uncle. Go figure.

Personally, I believe that women commit (child and adult) sexual assault and domestic abuse at the same rate as men. However, it's largely unreported by the victim, for a variety of reasons. If the victim is a girl, she has probably never been told that a woman is capable of hurting her, so she may not even be able to process what happened to her as a form of sexual assault. If the victim is a boy, society just celebrates his "good luck" . . . Even though multiple studies have shown that male victims of female perpetrated abuse suffer the same trauma as female victims of male perpetrated abuse.

Sadly, I don't think the true rates of female perpetrated abuse will ever become known until societies stops scapegoating then and pardoning women.

Oh--and good luck getting help for the PTSD and sexual trauma of female perpetrated CSA as an adult. A lot of therapists won't know what to do with you, and most of the self-help books are written for women. Even those which are written for men largely assume that the perpetrator was a man. Again, go figure.

picardathon · 2026-05-24T15:13:41+00:00

Even if most SA is committed by men, most doesn't mean all, so there will still be women committing SA which is just as bad at an individual level. Numbers are meaningless when an act is unacceptable, because it is unacceptable for all who commit it, no ifs, buts, double standards or excuses.

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2026-05-24T02:17:54+00:00

I always like to drop this tidbit in when this discussion pops up. Yeah, for the d&%kheads in the crowd, I'm sure most of the staff is female, changes nothing.

9,000 kids in group homes were surveyed, 10% were sexually abused by staff, 92% said the abuser was female.

https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/723250-sexual-victimization-in-juvenile-facilities-2008.html

xingxangxing · 2026-05-23T17:36:12+00:00

Interesting

Careful_Pen_5740 · 2026-05-24T03:52:10+00:00

There is a key factor in the sexual abuse of boys by women: at first glance (and only at first glance), the trauma is less severe because, unlike in the case of girls who have been raped, there is no physical damage such as a ruptured hymen.

But over time, psychological consequences emerge and are just as damaging as in the case of abused girls, especially when the perpetrator is someone from the child’s immediate or very close circle.

But due to the absence of physical harm and even the possible experience of pleasure, it is even more difficult for the young boy to understand that he has been subjected to moral and psychological harm that will be difficult to repair for the rest of his life.

And this works in the abuser’s advantage, along with the stigma or social ridicule that a boy (especially when he is a preteen or teenager) faces for reporting abuse by a woman, particularly if she is attractive.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2026-05-24T11:06:08+00:00

Women are the main abusers of children. I am pretty sure women are the main sexual abusers as well, and enjoy huge benefit to be invisible to the public due to women are wonderful effect.

rabel111 · 2026-05-25T01:40:53+00:00

Historical data often quoted by feminists suggests the vast majority of sexual offenses, and sexual offenses against children, are perpetrated by men. And it is claimed that historical data is consistent with more recent criminal conviction stats. This is assumed without question, as it matches the feminist narrative of men's violence against women. However, further examination of the data suggests there has been long term under reporting of female sexual offending generally, and recent increases in female offending are not new behaviours, but increased reporting of behaviour that has been occuring historically.

Sexual offenses actioned by the police in one Australian jurisdiction (2012-2021; N = 37,864) showed women were responsible for an average of 12.2% of all sexual offenses over this period. But research has also shown that in Australia, from 2008 to 2021, there was a 208% increase in the number of women in the criminal justice system for sexual offences. Given sexual predation of children by women was not a criminal offense in Australia until recently (1980s), there appears to be a historical culture in Australia of not recognising female sexual predation of children or as harmful, or criminal.

A key Australian sexual abuse support service has noted, structural factors, such as limited empirical research on female sexual offenders and the dominance of theories based on male offending patterns, have impacted how professionals conceptualise risk, motivation, and offending. Because women are under-identified and under-studied, existing sexual assault and child protection frameworks may inadequately capture the frequency and complexity of female sexual offending targeting children.

Research in the United States (2018-2019) found that an average of 8% of verified cases of sexual abuse in schools had a female perpetrator, but this figure ranged from 1% to more than 36% across the different states, suggesting differences in reporting rather than offending. This study also found that female sexual predators were more likely to victimise younger children, compared to male perpetrators, contributing to under reporting of offenses.

Given the reluctance to report female sexual predation of children in our communities, female sexual predation of children is most likely underreported, both historically and contemporaneously. For example, in the US, women composed about 25% of American criminal and noncriminal samples of abusive educators. But this figure increased when directly surveying American students, who identified female perpetrators in 43% of sexual misconduct cases.

The truth is that historical data do not reflect most sexual abuse being perpetrated by men. What the data do show is a historical reluctance to idenitify, report and criminalise, female sexual predation of children, and women's sexual offending generally.

Given the massive increasse in the repoting of female sexual predation of children in schools, our attention should also be directed at the reporting of female sexual predation in other female dominated professions, such as healthcare, psychology, DV services etc. While researchers have identified an increase in the reporting of female sexual predation of children in our education system, the lack of any reported cases in other female dominated profressions is implausible.

Soulful_Sadist · 2026-05-25T09:46:23+00:00

Yeah, that headline is statistically and blatantly inaccurate.

BOTH sexes have been and are guilty of all manner of horrific child-related crimes.

However, for example, just go to r/WomenAreViolentToo and it becomes pretty clear pretty fast how biased a headline statement like that is.

Status-Ad1161 · 2026-05-24T20:49:15+00:00

your own source says 75% of child SA is committed by men. that IS most. you literally cited the evidence that proves the claim you’re trying to debunk 💀 ‘we don’t really know’ yes we do and YOU just told us. saying ‘it could be higher for women due to underreporting’ is speculation not data and underreporting also applies to male perpetrators especially in institutional settings so that argument cuts both ways.

ctleatherdad · 2026-05-23T20:32:04+00:00

Stupid karma farming post. You obviously are single and childless....

Title	Most child SA are committed by men!
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