I broke up with my ex last week, and an old flame has recently come back into my life. For some reason, I'm having trouble finishing when we have sex.

It's not a performance issue — she's more than satisfied. But I can't seem to get there myself, which is frustrating because I'm genuinely attracted to her (probably the most attractive woman I've been with, honestly).

I have a couple of theories. It could be a mental block — maybe the breakup is still messing with my head, or I'm psyching myself out because she's so attractive. It could also be something as simple as the condoms — I had a bad batch that didn't fit right, so I've switched to a better brand and I'm curious if that makes a difference.

Has anyone dealt with something like this? What helped you get past it?