Validation blooms a girl, but keep falling into repetitive reactions to her pics.

hunterpua · 2026-06-11T20:12:23+00:00

This is simple. In order for it to be appreciated, your validation needs to be earned.

If we use her pictures for example, actually assess them and give her feedback and tell her you prefer some over others and actually give her meh responses to certain ones.

You can also tell women how to do better and then praise them when they follow.

If you just praise her for every picture she sends you no matter what then your praise will be taken for granted because you are in fact, granting it to her.

Also, because I know what this sub is like, reminder: I'm talking about an example with the pics, of course you can make women earn validation in all kinds of ways.

South-Excitement1720 · 2026-06-11T20:58:27+00:00

Stop being a validation factory. Only give validation, if it is genuine. And do not fall into the "covert contract" mindset of "I gave you validation, where is mine".

On the darker side of things, if you take away validation altogether, they will crave it more. But that is naughty.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-06-11T22:19:45+00:00

Don't just compliment her, tell her what you feel and what you want to do to her. Tell her scenarios that you imagine yourself in with her. Tell her you're having a hard time not losing control, and so on. Make her do something particular, once she does it, reward her.

Back2theCouture · 2026-06-11T19:54:24+00:00

When a girl sends you her nude or a sexy pic privately (not posted on her social media), don’t ever think that she needs a compliment from you.

But think of it like an invitation as if she’s asking you “what you gonna do with my body?” She’s trying to do an escalation on her part and you gotta reciprocate well by escalating more.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2026-06-16T22:06:35+00:00

Same. Girls will complain that I don't react to their pics sometimes and I'm like tf you want me to say?? "O wow" 18 times in a row?

ethicalhooping · 2026-06-11T20:13:16+00:00

"u look good" "i love when u send me pics it gets me hard" "come over"

always find a way to reinforce positive behavior

drewster23 · 2026-06-11T19:26:41+00:00

If she's still sending you pics....she's probably not against whatever you're saying...if she's still sending pics...use that crazy tool of communication and ask her. I know it's a wild concept getting the opinion of the person you're talking about but...you should try it.

Title	Validation blooms a girl, but keep falling into repetitive reactions to her pics.
Author	Flat-Ad7982
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Comments	9
Date	June 11, 2026 7:16 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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