Idk what it is but finally I decided I had to block my ex wife. Even though I unadded her on everything I still could see when she was active and stuff. The divorce was finalized june 10th and she knew about it I didnt know until I got it in the mail and that was june 15th. Even though that hurt I knew that there was no coming back from it. Today I went to pick up my mail from my mothere in law and they have been begging me to see the kids (Her kids I help raise) I unforturnetly had to go no contact with them as well so I didnt see them and it didnt seem like they cared much they ran out gave me a hug and wanted to go right back and play video games. Anyways it was a tuff day so I just decided its best to block her everywhere and just not wonder anymore. She also is still using my last name on social media idk why when we was granted her previous name back.