My mean neighbor blatantly abuses her husband? (verbally)

shtrjones87 · 2026-07-13T14:21:35+00:00

It's wild how often this has become a normalized thing.

Tallguystrongman · 2026-07-13T14:45:00+00:00

I don’t get it myself. If my wife started to act like that, it’d be worth half my stuff to say byyyye and get gone, even to another country if I had to. I love her but I love myself more than (my love for her minus that type of treatment)

Smeg-life · 2026-07-13T15:33:20+00:00

Document it

Call the cops

Junior-Ad-2072 · 2026-07-13T15:21:15+00:00

I'd make sure he knows he has an ally

LateralThinker13 · 2026-07-13T15:13:12+00:00

Everyone who wonders how this can happen, its the same reasons as when the genders are reversed... with one exception:

No one believes, respects, or cares about him when he comes forward.

Street_Conflict_9008 · 2026-07-13T19:10:06+00:00

Low self esteem and a lack of setting and maintaining boundries.

The relationship is toxic.

Fit-Philosopher-7393 · 2026-07-13T18:40:43+00:00

Call the cops, that is clearly grounds for a DV charge (should double check with your laws) if you record it as well.

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2026-07-13T19:56:28+00:00

Maybe you should call the cops? Think how they could not blame him if a neutral third party reported it.

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2026-07-13T19:57:55+00:00

On my neighborhood email system a woman called her husband an idiot in a blast email. On the plus side, her email was taken down. Maybe they don't allow women to do that?

spiritof77noiseof82 · 2026-07-13T20:42:20+00:00

Oh recently my neighbor said I deserve it because I "drive her crazy"

When its woman doing it to a man its always the man's fault. When its a man doing it to a woman he gets hauled off and slapped with a protective order.

EmmSR · 2026-07-13T20:44:23+00:00

Document it and call the cops on her, let that guy know you have his back and he shouldnt deal with that

DRAGONexperience · 2026-07-13T17:32:35+00:00

so buddies cheating and she’s having an emotional breakdown and you feel sad for him as if he’s getting abused, but he’s just running around on her and the circle of life continues because this is what’s been happening since the beginning of time but you think it’s abuse?

Sorry, I’m just trying to understand if there’s a whole new system at play that developed after centuries but I don’t think so. I think it’s the same old same old he’s going p**** hunting and got busted because he’s not pulling his weight around the house and you feel sorry for him

Title	My mean neighbor blatantly abuses her husband? (verbally)
Author	PithyCyborg
Upvotes	80
Comments	19
Date	July 13, 2026 2:04 PM UTC (1 week ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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