It’s been about three months since my ex-wife told me she no longer wanted to be in a relationship with me.
I was with her since I was 20, and we got married when I was 23. I’m now 30 and honestly have no idea what to do with my life.

I recently broke the lease on my expensive apartment, bought myself a used car, and decided to stop leasing because I didn’t feel comfortable signing another lease without knowing if the person I was building a future with truly wanted to be with me.

I spent my entire 20s dedicating myself to building a comfortable life and future for us.
Now that she’s gone, along with most of the social network I had, I feel very lost and sad. I honestly don’t know what to do with my life.

I’m grateful that I have a good career in tech, making about $140,000 per year, and I’m living with family temporarily while I figure out my next steps.
I currently live in Michigan, but I only stayed here because I saw a future with my ex-wife.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about starting over somewhere new, like Las Vegas or Tampa. I’m not sure yet, but I really want a fresh start.

I’m also hoping to eventually meet a few women I can date casually as I move on and rebuild my life.

If you were in my shoes, what would you do?