Anyway, just finalized a clean divorce after 25+ years. We just grew apart and unconnected.
So, I decided to sell and move 1500 miles back to where I came from.
Started reconnecting with old friends. One was a girl I dated 35 years ago in high school. We were good until she went off to college.
Well, here we are. We have found a lot in common. Same life situation and she lives a block from my new home. We decided to go to dinner. Traded nice clean photos and talked a lot. I will see her next week when I get there. Just to reconnect.
Well, last night’s call turned into more. Started with asking for a hug and then went from there. 3 hours later, she told me she wanted to hang up because she needed to masterbate. Then she didn’t hang up. She just asked me to talk her through it. Well, of course I did. Never done anything like that before.
I don’t want to go in too much. I like her and don’t want to scare her.
What do I do? I think this first hug in a long time will be more than that. She is asking for it.
She has told me her divorce was traumatic as she was in a dead bedroom for 5 years only to find out he was cheering with a coworker. She has not dated in 8 years and says that she found her partner and wants to make more of our friendship.
I am interested too but don’t want to rush or hurt her.
Thanks.