I agree with many things from the redpill. One thing from my experience that seems to differ is that fact that being stoic and aloof a lot makes girls give up.

I am naturally a very stoic guy who doesnt show a lot of emotion and never jump out of my frame.Many times though the girls in question will start testing in ways to see if I care or not(IMO). And if i just ignore it or stay in my frame they get more distant and pissed and when i actually do react abit they get super happy and affectionate.

For example recently I told a plate I wanted to go eat at x restaurant with her and other people. She then told me the other people where eating somewhere else but she wanted to go with me alone. (Didnt want to go alone as shes a plate)I told her nah lets just go eat with them. Thats where everything started.

She came up to me twice during the night and told me that guys grabbed her ass (probably not true just trying to get a reaction)and both times i chuckled and didnt do anything about it. She then started blatantly flirting with guys and not giving attention to me like she always does . I didn't do shit about it for a while. I knew what she was doing was because i didn't go with her to the restaurant.It was obvious she was looking for a reaction since when the guys danced to close she pushed them away. At this point i was thinking that staying in my frame to much was making it worse. I consciously decided to give a bit to see what would happened.

I went up to her friend and said im tired im leaving without telling the plate . Plate comes running after me outside telling me where are you going !why didnt you tell me! with the biggest smile on her face.I answered stoicly and acted a bit cold going home. She was very affectionate and touchy on the way home. As if she was happy to see a bit of reaction. We then went home and had the best sex ive had with her and she was super affectionate. Just the act of me walking away probably made her think i got jelous and left and made her really happy and affectionate.

These situations always happen to me. Im just curious about others experiences about losing girls by being to stoic and how do you guys balance how much to "give"