About 2 yrs ago there was a Lesbian couple that I knew of and was sorta friends with.

Anyway they got married and wanted to have kids, but didn't want to shell out the money to get artificially pregnant so they recruited two young men to basically have sex with them until they got pregnant. I got to meet those two young men one evening and I said to them

"Do you guys have like a written contract or something saying you aren't responsible for the baby?" they said "Nah, it's cool they moving anyways"

Those young men (early 20s) went ahead and successfully got their respective girl pregnant. At this point the men left the Lesbians alone and the girls in question went through with the pregnancy.

Well one of the lesbians got kicked out of the Army (honorably part of the downsizing) after that I discovered they where going after those two young men for child support payments.

One of them spoke to me about the situation and asked what I thought, and I said I'm not even sure if there is a way to get out of it even if you did have a written agreement, but you didn't have an agreement and the child is biologically yours...therefore you will be paying child support. He argued and I said "Doesn't really matter"

So yup, they are going get stuck paying for child support for a child they never wanted and where promised they'd never have to care for.

By the way I've sent the women in question a nasty gram saying they know what they are doing is wrong, everyone knew what the deal was and they are now using their superior position to strong arm those guys.

BTW everyone in this story is military (besides me)