Ladies,

As a man, I've gone through many years of feeling bad for wanting what I do in a woman. I've felt like there was no way I could tell a woman I didn't much care for the way feminism tends to manifest itself. I once struggled to significant length to articulate to a girl that I thought she was a "good woman," as I finally put it, afraid I would offend her with that kind of sentiment. She acted the way the people here would have encouraged her to. It's so refreshing to be able to address you as "ladies" and really mean it. I'm extremely impressed to see a group of women who get men so well, who are willing to work and actually go out of their way to please us.

Seeing all these posts and comments gives me hope that I really might find a woman worth marrying one day, who will give me everyone I've ever wanted, and everything I would not have known to ask for. I want my wife to be just as happy with me, and I've put considerable energy already into forging what I consider to be a model man and best version of myself.

That brings me to TRP for men- do you look to what they write like I do at you? Do you want to be with a red pill man? Do you go there and secretly hope someone like that will come into your life? By even caring what you want at all, am I no longer Alphaasfuk? It gets made fun of a great deal around reddit, and even I am about 50/50 on the things they write. Some of it's great and are things I've long accepted, like the idea that I'm not inherently special and no woman will ever love me simply for existing other than my mother, that I need to provide, that I might need to be the stern and rational voice, that many women will have attractions to different traits at different times so I should find a good balance, etc, and that will work on most women. On the other hand, many of them seem to genuinely not like women, and other things sound like they are written by teenagers who just decided recently they want to be hardcore and "be men," with the aim of fucking as many women as possible (because real men are not in complete control of themselves, apparently, and banging all the whores you can is the epitome of manliness, I guess).

My end game isn't to fuck as many women as possible, or "most women." What I'm trying to engineer is the type of environment that someone with your worldview will thrive in. I am going to be strong and a good leader for the relationship and try to be a man you're proud of, but I don't want to feel this antagonism like I should just be looking for reasons to get divorced, and frankly I care about my future wife's happiness, and I may even have some gasp chivalrous leanings.

So, for someone who wants to accomplish that, to get a red pill woman, is the red pill honestly that good a guide for men? I'm interested in your answers.