I have choices. This is thanks to a combination of status, DNA, attitude and location. I am also older than most of you, so I have more experience.

There are girls I pump and dump. Beautiful, model like girls that are big into the night scene, or that spin plates themselves. Great sex, great fun. I forget about them the moment they walk out the door, until the next time I hang out with them.

There are girls I chase for weeks. Low IG followers with no sexy photos, not overall sexual, sometimes even less beautiful than the girls in the first category. I go on dates without making a move (kisses yes, but no sex), I make them to desire me and I only strike when I feel they reached the peak before starting to lose interest in me.

Every now and then I fall in love. I think about a particular girl at night, feel butterflies in the stomach when they text me, the whole lot. I give a lot to those girls, my time, sweet messages in the morning, and nice dinners or weekend getaways. After a while the infatuation goes away and I move on. I know myself, it happened so many times, and I am now at the stage where I enjoy the time with those girls fully, because intensity is more important than duration.

Now think about it... this is what girls who have options do:

There is the Alpha guy that they call when they are horny

The beta guy that they keep around for weeks, because they see him as interesting to spend time with, not only for sex

And there are the guys they think are LTR material that they fall in love with... until they find something else and move on.

Now my provocative question is: which one you’d like to be? Because being the alpha that girls want to fuck is not always the best option. There are many shades of grey.

Of course I don’t need orbiters, and I don’t need anyone to tell me how beautiful I am... and you should never be one for a girl... this is clear.