Dont accept cheap men ladies!🤣🤣💅🏾

PrncssGmdrp · 2020-08-28T16:36:32+00:00

Honestly I have to fight this instinct so hard.

On my last birthday my boyfriend took me out to a nice steakhouse for dinner. I have done a lot of internal work but in my head I’m still prone to trying to spend as little as possible. He did not let me! When I ordered a Diet Coke he called the waitress back and told her to make me their nicest cocktail. So I got both. When she left he asked me what I was going to order and sensed I was going to order down and looked at me, and told me you are getting the nicest steak on this menu. You pick whatever you want, don’t save me money. I want you to have the best. He always orders me a bunch of extra apps and sides to try even if it runs the bill up.

I make a lot more then him, not that he’s broke, he has a career and all, but I just haven’t broken that habit. He always makes sure I get whatever I want and he covers it. He never pulls that “but you make more” stuff that my LVM exes did. It’s so refreshing. When he found out I got another big raise bringing my income way up he was just happy for me and nothing changed, I still get pampered without complaint. I just save that money. Savings is looking real nice at the moment lol.

I def have work to do on this front. I’ve learned not to suffer fools but it’s a journey!

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-08-28T16:08:13+00:00

Nope. If he ends up being cheap and I have to pay for my meal anyway, I’m gonna eat what I want.

youcantucan · 2020-08-28T21:20:46+00:00

I personally think it’s better guidance to order the dinner you want without choosing by the price tag. I intend to order exactly what I want to eat. If that’s a cold sandwich so be it, but I will also order the steak if that’s what suits me

willowgrowingroots · 2020-08-28T15:38:55+00:00

So..eating the cheapass scrote?

2020-08-28T15:22:03+00:00

I lol’d for real

ughme2222 · 2020-08-28T17:46:53+00:00

I would rather not go on such date

GAaliyah12 · 2020-08-28T17:51:20+00:00

If I have to do that, I'm moving to a different table and paying for myself.

voodo2020 · 2020-08-28T15:42:03+00:00

All cheap men I’ve seen around my friend group are still virgins lmao

2020-08-28T23:01:51+00:00

I'm curious. I was always taught (but hadn't paid much attention to) the rule to either match the price of the host's meal, or stay under it. What are your thoughts on that rule?

When I used to date though, I would only purposefully order really expensive if they acted up. If you're polite and funny I'll get what I want (usually a vegetarian dish). If you're a self absorbed jackass, I'll have the surf and turf . 💅🏻

balladwilds · 2020-08-29T10:35:41+00:00

girls you have so many dms lmao 😭

Title	Dont accept cheap men ladies!🤣🤣💅🏾
Author	Chantelmorris345
Upvotes	205
Comments	16
Date	August 28, 2020 3:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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