Broke up with my boyfriend of 2 months, feeling down need some support

2020-09-01T21:10:22+00:00

He’s way too old for you. It’s not a dead bedroom in 3 months of a dating relationship 🤡 hahaha. Ya’ll don’t even have the same bedroom how can it be dead?

2020-09-01T21:39:34+00:00

Girl, 2 months in is still the honeymoon period where both parties are on their best behaviour. It's the period where men know they're supposed to be respectful, giving, and understanding.

If your man is acting like that 2 months in, just imagine the selfish inconsiderate monster he'll become when your lives are more intertwined.

Consider it a blessing that you only wasted two months of energy and emotions on him. One day, you'll look back and won't even remember his name.

whendovescry2020 · 2020-09-01T21:02:13+00:00

You did the right thing by breaking up with him. He didn’t respect your boundaries and was trying to manipulate you as well. You deserve better with someone that respects you, values you , and doesn’t cross the boundaries you set in a relationship .

iggypooop · 2020-09-01T22:02:30+00:00

First of all, a 35 years old man has no business befriending a woman 11 years younger than him. Second, he is mediocre in bed; if the first time was just okay, know that it's only getting worse from there, and instead of respecting your boundaries he guil-trips you. He is controlling, boring, manipulative...you weren't going to be happy with him. Girl, you did the right thing!

Wait__No__What · 2020-09-01T22:47:29+00:00

Honey, go re-read everything you said is wrong with this guy. Soooo many red flags.

What value was he bringing to YOUR life? Sounds like NONE.

Of COURSE he's going to cry and carry on and try and get you to take him back. Everything he says to get you back serves HIS best interests, NOT yours.

Do not compromise. There is no compromise with a LVM. There is only you throwing YOUR standards in the garbage in exchange for dismal sex and the abandonment of your desires.

You did the right thing breaking up with him. Now finish the job and block, delete, and move on with your life!

JaneIsaPain · 2020-09-02T01:12:47+00:00

There is a reason he is not dating women his age

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-02T00:23:46+00:00

Crocodile tears. Men are experts in it.

Work on seeing the reality of what they really mean behind their crocodile tears.

I had a man cry crocodile tears after repeatedly trying to rape me and then when I told him about it he told me to fuck off and that I'm mentally ill. Then he came back to cry his crocodile tears and whined about how he's really a good man. I told him he should have thought about that before trying to rape me five different times and walked away cold. Eat shit, rapist.

Hahane · 2020-09-01T22:34:42+00:00

You should have told him that the only thing HE had to do is a compromise. Double standards much? You may not see it now but all of us do and the thing is you'll be fine. Read a hanbook in a meanwhile, or other recommended book - it's better to be angry than sad.

Infamous-Helicopter7 · 2020-09-02T04:04:20+00:00

So many red flags! You are lucky you didn't waste more time on this person.

It sounds like he thinks "compromise" means "do things exactly how he wants".

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-09-01T23:53:53+00:00

Let yourself grieve the man you thought he was.

If you can, write out your fears and resentments. Scientifically helps you cope.

Try and learn something so you can create new brains neurons so your rewards system is rewired and doesnt still look to him Very sorry you experienced a lvm

falkor9011 · 2020-09-01T23:30:33+00:00

He sounds manipulative

Title	Broke up with my boyfriend of 2 months, feeling down need some support
Author	KickKathleeenKennedy
Upvotes	11
Comments	12
Date	September 1, 2020 7:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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