Aren't you guys afraid you will catch an sti?

chachaChad · 2018-02-07T16:12:07+00:00

It seems like lots of people are in denial about getting STD's. It won't happen to me. First off, you can't tell who you're fucking just by looking and also, you can't tell who their partners are fucking. She might seem like a good girl but the last Chad to unload in her could have given her everything in the book. She may or may not have known and she's sure as shit not telling you even if she knows. Any n-count a girl gives you is fucking meaningless so asking is pointless.

The simple truth of the matter is that you can't know so, if you have any self respect, you'll use condoms with partners you don't know. Only once a girl has been vetted and you're both been tested, should you go unprotected. It's your job to protect yourself and the way you do that is to use a condom every fucking time. Protection even applies to oral sex.

Full disclosure... I had an LTR that had a needle using Chad in her past that she didn't tell me about. One time when we were both supposed to donate blood, she freakout and ran out with out giving. Then another time, one of her friends said something to her and I overheard. We got tested and, thankfully, neither were infected. I said with her for a time but I lost all trust in her after that. I through her out a few months later.

I'm an old dude and just a few weeks ago realized that I hadn't been tested in a long time. I'm married but had more than my share of side action. Most of it was just receiving blow jobs from random chicks so, in my mind, I was safe, right.

I found a place on the web where I could make an appointment with a local lab and do it anonymously. It cost $200 but it sure was worth it to know that I was clean. Don't kid yourself. The more unprotected action you get, the more likely it is that you'll catch something. Be smart. Be safe. Pussy is great but not at the expense of your health.

[deleted] · 2018-02-07T18:21:39+00:00

Don't have sex guys. You might get AIDS.

redaftrp · 2018-02-07T15:56:41+00:00

I pass them all the time... Dodge Challenger owner, whole reason I traded my Subaru STI for one.

quicklogaccount · 2018-02-07T15:49:54+00:00

Condoms lower the chances to hardcore shit (hiv and hep C) to negligible values. The others, but herpes, are curable. Herpes itself is annoying at worst, and most people already have it either way.

Haven't you taken the hpv vaccine?

jb_trp · 2018-02-07T17:41:35+00:00

Use protection, get tested regularly, but mostly things are good.

https://markmanson.net/std-guide

Full disclosure: I've bareback fucked too many chicks off Tinder/Bumble. It's a mix of poor decision making and drinking. I would suggest always having condoms to lower the chances of pregnancy or STDs. I wish I had used condoms, even though I've never tested positive for anything.

thefisherman1961 · 2018-02-07T16:50:08+00:00

I am, that’s why I’m pretty selective with who I sleep with. Don’t sleep with girls who you know have a high partner count, or had a lot of partners recently, or have ever had an STD, or have ever slept with anyone who has ever had any STDs, or has used needles, or slept with anyone who has used needles. Straight up ask her if she has any STDs.

Don’t sleep with any girls who admit to any of this stuff. Don’t sleep with any girls who you even suspect are guilty of any of these things.

Make sure she asks you to wear a condom before you even bring it up. Look for signs of STDs on her body like coldsores or even tattoos. There’s a reason people with tattoos look like trashy walking STDs, because you don’t know what kind of AIDS-infested needle they were tatted up with.

Obviously none of these are bulletproof because the only way to really avoid STDs is to go abstinent MGTOW, but you can greatly minimize the risk if you adhere to these rules.

F_Morrison · 2018-02-07T17:15:08+00:00

With all the people getting killed in muggings, car crashes on their way to work, and random deaths, you might as well end it all now... but you don’t, you drive safe, you don’t go into dark alleys at night and you live as safe as you can. Do the same with sex, and most STIs are treatable and manageable, not death sentences. Fear is useless and gets you nowhere be it in life, sex, or career.

Andgelyo · 2018-02-07T17:30:17+00:00

This is why you get quality women, not quantity women. Get to know a chick for a few weeks, see if you both vibe, and then both of you go get checked before having sexual relations. If you do that, you should be good.

joedevice · 2018-02-07T18:09:58+00:00

Are you afraid of dying when you drive your car?

There are risks with everything.

Wrap your shit up and you should be fine.

hrm0894 · 2018-02-07T19:06:03+00:00

I'm more worried about getting a bitch pregnant than getting STIs. With that said, you can apply redpill principles without fucking every hottie that catches your eye.

AlwaysOnTheFence · 2018-02-07T22:42:56+00:00

My buddy got a blowjob off a girl who didn't realize she had a coldsore forming on her lip. He got oral herpes on his dick and thought his life was over. Turns out the oral form of herpes isn't as bad as the genital one. He never got another outbreak after the first one. He basically has the same virus now that most of us have except if it ever comes back it'll be on his dick. He's apparently more resistant to the actual genital herpes now too which is kind of a plus I suppose.

He always uses condoms now out of fear of catching something worse. Apart from that he seems to be living the same way he always did except he always wears protection.

dinnerbro69 · 2018-02-08T04:05:35+00:00

When I went trick or treating in 6th grade with a few of my buddies, we went to this one house with some teenagers partying. We did the trick or treat thing and the kid gave us condoms. He then pardoned us with this timeless wisdom:

“Don’t be a fool, always wrap your tool”

Always stuck with me. I always wear a rubber when I’m hooking up with a chick

RP_Br3 · 2018-02-07T15:48:24+00:00

Screening, don't go out with the town bike every guy has taken a ride on. Can you get an estimate of her carefulness or her n-count? Does she want to use a condom before you even bring it up?

Avoid anyone with cold sores, and always use a condom

kick6 · 2018-02-07T20:05:53+00:00

I don't worry about concern-trolling from people who end their posts with "lol." Seems to keep me disease free.

steggun_cinargo · 2018-02-07T21:47:00+00:00

They have meds for that

SocietalEngineering · 2018-02-07T16:49:42+00:00

I just don't care. We are going to die anyway, might as well do what you love.

Title	Aren't you guys afraid you will catch an sti?
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Date	February 7, 2018 3:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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