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WARNING- We will tell you the truth.

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July 11, 2014
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Title WARNING- We will tell you the truth.
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Date July 11, 2014 6:25 PM UTC
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[–]TheOpposingView 71 points72 points73 points 12 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

For fucks sake I am tired of these "I found Red Pill and now I am motherfucking Tyler Durden, now everyone get all riled up!"

I hope this is mainly a summer symptom.

Chill. Out. This is not a war. Who are you even yelling at? Your attempt at self-aggrandizement is so transparent it makes me cringe.

Here's some truth: Upvotes on your posts on Reddit should not be so exciting to you. They are pointless.

Tyler Durden did not Reddit.

[–]Draki1903 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who are you even yelling at?

Whoever is there to give validation.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TurgidMeatWand 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The only power it granted me was a cleaner house and more erections throughout the day

[–]weag5l 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Jesus dude. Do you jizz on the walls or something?

[–]TurgidMeatWand 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol no, I cleaned more often because I wasnt spent from from wasting time looking for the right porn. Plus once I bust a nut straightening up is the furthest thing from my mind.

[–]weag5l 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah OK. That makes much more sense.

[–]Modified_Hackware 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

/r/alreadyred

plus some words for the bot.

[–]cooledcannon 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah honestly fuck the bot

[–]redditguy1515 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am so tired of these posts acting like The Red Pill has reinvented the wheel and is delivering the 10 commandments down from the mountain. Its just a male improvement forum guys, jeez. Girls like to bang hot guys??!! Whoa, never would have figured that out without swallowing the pill.

[–]derpthetroll 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some men find it appropriate to pass the buck and blame others for their shortcomings. This is a good reminder that we as men need to rise up and take responsibility for our own destiny.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it's a good reminder too. Even though it's been in my mind since i've started reading here a few months or so, it's still nice to read.

[–]dancingwithcats -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I would not call the male humans you reference 'men'.

EDIT: This was a reference to those who blame others, so I'm not sure why anyone would downvote this. They are not what I would call 'men' even though they are male.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao&feature=kp

Shit like this will not happen in RL and it wont happen here. Still a pretty interesting movie short.

[–]Hoodwink 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The movie shows exactly why validation happens and why women do it. It creates (replaces) connections and encourages favoritism. And, eventually, you'll hear it from another person.

[–]kinggluejar 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wonder if there's a guy, 5'5, fat, and ugly with a four inch dick that read this.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope close though! I'm only 3", suckers!

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]jessetdtklamf 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only reason he's ugly now is because he's much older. The man has been better looking than average most of his life.

[–]Doomsday_ 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Utilize PE

PE, aside from the horrific plastic surgery one might get, is a bullshit scam. That's the truth.

Size does not matter nearly as much as most men think it does. If your dick is long enough for you to fuck a woman, it is not too small. The best solution is not to worry about it. The appeal of a larger penis is almost purely psychological, not based on greater physical stimulation for the woman, since most of the nerve endings are located toward the entrance of the vagina.

Solution: read The Sex God Method. Sex for women is much more about psychological stimulation than physical stimulation.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The origin of the appeal of a larger penis doesn't matter. Appeal is appeal. Guys with small dicks are more likely to be cheated on. This is a fact of life. Ignoring it instead of working around it will make life more difficult.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

How can something you can do without paying a dime be a scam?

Edit: Oh and size matters, even women are starting to admit it.

[–]Redpiller456 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But how much? I mean, some women complain that a huge dick really hurts and honestly isn't all that pleasurable. A small dick sucks to work with too, apparently. And of course, there will always be size queens out there.

I'm a bit above 6'' and slightly thick and sex is always painful for this asian girl I'm banging. I can't imagine walking around loaded with a pornstar dick. When you're that huge, girls say that's the size they want, but in practicality it is probably more painful than anything else, or so I've heard.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

7" in length 5.5" in girth for ONS and 6.5" in length 5.5" in girth for LTRs according to an article I've read on the dailymail.

[–]senore_wild 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks like someone's ovulating today. Fuck. Get your rage outta here. Keep composed and be stoic. This sub can delete itself and burn to the fucking ground with these shitty "reminders".

[–]Blacquebit 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lifelong beta male here. Posting to support the OP. This is the motherfucking hard bitter truth. Swallow that shit. I had to, and I'm becoming a better, stronger man because of it. Look around you..in amerucan society, at least, men have been browbeaten and cuckolded into a shell of our collective former selves..and some of you LIKE IT.

I'm a statistic, in a way. Black, no daddy, mom loved me but had no idea how to raise a boy into manhood, so I spent my adult life trying to figure out what being a man means..and although I certainty don't have all the answers, the cold, hard TRUTH is a good fucking place to start. The truth is, nice, in today's definition, backed up by behavior, just means, over compensating, unsure, needy, passive-aggressive man-child. Been there, got all the t-shirts.

Fuck every bit of that. Get your shit straight, get your money straight, get your life straight, and you won't believe how much pussy will be knocking on your door.

Time to man up, gentleman. Time to man up.

[–]sculd 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a boss-wannabe.

[–]Mrjetsondc 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't hate Mick. He was a good looking guy back in the day. That faggot from Nickelback is ugly as fuck though.

[–]Sir_Fancy_Pants 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm all for truth, but you have to be careful you don't go too far the other way too.

Yes society sugar coats the ugly truth and plays rainbows and sunshine over some pretty unpleasant realities, but a lot of stuff i have seen posted by some people is not true either and paints relationships or social interactions as a survivalist dog eat dog jungle more extreme than it actually is.

[–]circlhat 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are solutions for all the problems. But don't come here whining about how your life sucks or how your facial aesthetics aren't right or how you aren't tall. We don't fucking care. We are too busy making ourselves better to sit here and emotionally validate you. Go back to askwomen if you want people to tell you pretty little lies.

That is exactly what askwomen says, they give your same advice,

  • Your girl cheated? You are at fault
  • Women don't like you: You are at fault

You are giving good advice, but blue pill advice,the true is most girls cheat on guys when they are to nice , that means buying her flowers, taking her on trips, forgiving her for cheating several times.

I find posts where people state how they could never be alpha, or assertive

Most people say they don't want to be alpha because its disrespectful, we don't need this shitty ass 16 year old gym attitude, Most blue pill guys put in 10x the effort of a red pill guy.

[–]subcover 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am balding and 5 5. And I don't have a tough time. Height and weight, etc, have little to do with attraction. They'll tell you it does, because that's what their conscious brain wants. But their pussy doesn't act that way.

Women either lie about what actually attracts them sexually or they don't know. In either case, ignore it or laugh at it.

[–]Dan-Man 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not seeing that article you mention on the good looking loser site

[–]WhenIntegralsAttack8 points 12 years ago [recovered] (27 children) | Copy Link

This is bullshit. If a girl cheats, it's her fucking fault. You're doing the same thing that feminists do in removing women's agency.

Also, what the fuck is the point of this post? Are you ranting at us or yourself?

[–]derpthetroll 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think OP is saying that 100% of the time is your fault. I think he's speaking generally.

I've been in failed relationships and I can verify that they have all failed due to my lack of frame or beta habits. Maybe you are different.

Furthermore, women are not the enemy. They simply react based on how we act. If we fix ourselves, in general, they will fall in line. I think this is OP's message.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is bullshit. If a girl cheats, it's her fucking fault.

If you act blue pill, your girl will cheat on you. If you pull a dog's tail, it will bite you. Is it the dog's fault?

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[–]Tsilent_Tsunami -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Same happened with me when I saw that misspelled word.

Lose and loose have completely different meanings, in case you're wondering.

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[–]Tsilent_Tsunami 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I have an older phone, and I guess the benefit is it still lets me review comments before posting. Plus, I can also access the edit feature.

Perhaps I'm not in your peer group, but a typo in written communications implies the communication lacks value to its author. In turn, this substandard offering suggests a certain lack of respect towards the reader. What is the real message being delivered?

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[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm new to TRP so I might not exactly be right but I think that OP's point is that the only validation that matters is your own - not anyone elses - least of all validation from a female (which is something that BPers fail to realize).

The point of TRP is to make us realize that we as men are in control of our own lives and thus we owe it to ourselves to take the necessary steps to meet our own levels of validation not those that we allow to be imposed on us by others. I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling important because that just shows that you value yourself and are secure about who you are.

[–]circlhat 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The point of TRP is to make us realize that we as men are in control of our own lives

He had a awful way of expressing that ideal, we can't control women; so if they cheat its on them.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Allow me to disagree by saying that that's a very one dimensional way to look at it. Any equation in life is comprised of known and unknown variables in some combination manifesting in a specific end result. If the unknown variable in this case is 'the woman' (because she can't be controlled) and the end result is 'being cheated on' than it follows that the known variable must be 'yourself' (because you can control yourself).

That's not to say that equal responsibility for being cheated on lies equally on the woman and yourself; rather that both factors influence the outcome. Therefore just because you can't control women doesn't mean that you absolve yourself of blame for being cheated on.

Also put yourself in the position of the cheater. Why would you cheat in the first place? Because in one way or anther your partner isn't satisfying a need you may have and (in your point of view) will never try to. Infidelity - whether or not its on the part of a man or a woman - can be traced to basic underlying motives, regardless of gender. This is the point OP's trying to make. If you don't try to make yourself better, then you're basically inviting calamity which at the end of the day will not only affect your mate, but will also affect you. That I believe is the whole point of TRP. Prevention is better than cure.

EDIT - Grammar.

[–]Tsilent_Tsunami 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling important because that just shows that you value yourself and are secure about who you are.

Teenagers often go through a phase where they believe they're smarter than everyone else. They're typically very "secure" in that belief, but it can be highly amusing to adults to see this in action. (unless you're the parent)

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Teenager's for all intents and purposes are not 'stable' individuals. All those raging hormones and hormonal imbalances are bound to affect your perception of reality and judgement. This consequently implies that frankly speaking, as a teenager, you really aren't in full control of yourself whereas, as an adult, you more or less are and thus have the responsibility to make decisions that will result in you feeling as important as you can to yourself without necessarily bordering on to narcissism.

[–]8pacman1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Being of such "high value" and above reproach is exactly how you get cheated on. Maybe not today, maybe not this yr, but one day she will yearn for greener pastures on the other side of the fence for some maintenance man who treats her like shit. When she does cheat it should be100% her fault and 100% her loss. Fuck that Bitch and onto the next.

[–]subcover -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You need muscles and a super expensive boat to get pussy? Well whatever "floats your boat" ...

[–]theredpillager 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

super expensive boat

He said nothing of its value. For all we know, he might be banging a chick on a canoe right now.

[–]FortunateBum 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't agree with that common TRP meme either.

Personally I think that practically every relationship will end at some point. There will be nothing you can do about that. The best thing is to be prepared rather than a chump who thinks "true love conquers all" or some bullshit.

[–]2Occams_Shiv 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No. No. No. OP is not ambiguous. Black Phillip Rule number whatever is "It is always your fault."

That's also rule no. 1 of any leadership position. Guess which role in the relationship is yours. Hint: it's the leader.

[–]FortunateBum 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Psychologically, that's a good position to take because it'll always spur you to try.

But in reality? In reality there are a million things beyond your control.

I think it's best to believe both things even though they contradict.

[–]2Occams_Shiv 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's the bitch of being in charge. A tsunami sinks your boat? Not in your control. Your fault? Were you the captain? If so, yes.

It sucks but the alternative sucks worse.

Also, there is no difference between "psychologically" and "in reality" when it comes to relationships. Relationships only exist in a psychological space. Feel free to disagree until life teaches you the truth.

It. Is. Always. Your. Fault.

(This does not mean you can control every outcome. You are not God.)

[–]circlhat 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On paper your ideal makes sense, in reality you are preaching self hate.

Your dad rape you when you were a kid ? Your fault Someone raped you in a alley , your fault

It's only your fault when its your fault, none of this stupid jock sport shit, in real life you have to deal with consequences rather its your fault or not.

If I sitting at home and a drunk driver kills me, I guess its my fault ?

Your logic leads to self hate, you can't have that kind of weight, its killing men who try to have this hyper macho attitude.

If its not your fault stand up for yourself.

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I use to believe that it was a girl's fault for cheating. She's just a whore. But that's a unicorn mentality at work, thinking that there are exceptional women out there who wouldn't behave this way.

Let me tell you, all women are capable of it just as all men are capable of infidelity. But the concept remains constant across both genders: a person cheats when they are not satisfied in the relationship, which is usually a shortcoming of the other partner. Women cheat when they no longer find their men attractive. Same goes for men. A man is attractive to a woman so long as he possesses masculine traits and behaves in a dominant fashion (no matter how much of a fight his wife puts up). A woman is attractive to a man so long as she is loyal and compassionate and looks physically appealing.

When a cheating partner is unsatisfied, it's usually because their partner has dropped the ball somewhere. Wife gets fat, stops putting out, or is a soul-sucking succubus? Likely to be cheated on. Man becomes docile, submits to his wife, and/or no longer maintains status and strength? Likely to be cheated on.

I agree that people shouldn't cheat on others, but it's part of human nature to be selfish. The cheating partner wants to fulfill their missing needs in other partners. We can take the moral high ground and call people out on this behavior... but that won't stop people from being human.

[–]Ralt 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone cheating is nothing but a recipe, people are not as complex creatures as you think. Add the right environment, mix in a little "unhappiness", and an attractive person that wants to fuck, and you've got all you need for someone to cheat.

[–]subcover 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes of course it's her fault. Blame her for it, dump her, cheat on her, turn her into a plate without bothering to tell her, whatever seems strategic and enjoyable to you in this case.

But go into it with your eyes open, seeing what's actually going on.

If you do this much, I believe she'll notice and the cheating would not happen anyway. Even for those of us 5 foot 5 and balding.

[–]otiswild 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The difference is, we KNOW they don't really have agency, we just call that lie out to the hypocritical fembots who bitch about it.

[–]My_Dog_Jax 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I did enjoy the "small dick? Flip the plates quicker." The essence of TRP right there. Cold hard math.

[–]lloopy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I came here because I was angry. But it was an impotent rage. Then I read, and read and read. Now I understand. Now I know what I must do. Now it's not a confusing mass of contradiction and double speak.

I've swallowed the red pill.

[–]FallenHighSchoolJock 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The truth with a slightly bitter, misogynistic slant. This is coming from a guy who agrees with like 70 percent of the stuff said here.

[–]MooMooMooN -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aye!

Before a person complains they had better be working out regularly.. that seems to solve many problems quickly!

[–]a_chill_bro -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Somebody had to say it. Thanks for posting this.

[+]aazav -9 points-8 points-7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it's* hard to hear.

it's = it is.

Here's a hard truth for you. If you're preaching the solution to hard problems and you can't, don't or won't get fourth grade English right, it casts doubt on how right you are in the more difficult subjects you claim to be an expert in.

TL;DR: proofread your post and fix your mistakes or you may look stupid.

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