Does a big dick affect a man SMV?

Rorta · 2016-10-06T19:56:34+00:00

Here's the thing.

I don't have a big dick. It's average. Girls who fuck me and like me will tell me its big. Girls who I've pissed off will tell their friends its small as if its a micropenis or something. Their friends have still fucked me.

The bottom line is, it doesn't really matter.

TheRedStoic · 2016-10-06T19:38:49+00:00

Yup.

For the size Queens.

But you can't change it either way, so why worry?

crixusin · 2016-10-06T19:07:12+00:00

Are you going to grow a big dick over night if the answer is yes?

If not, then who cares.

blue_dover · 2016-10-06T22:49:23+00:00

Your problem isn't a big or small dick - it's overthinking shit

seattleron · 2016-10-06T20:10:33+00:00

It will make women curious about it. It will not inherently make them want to fuck you more.

If you're an insecure pussy who buys flowers and write love letters and check your phone every 5 seconds for a girl to text you, they will be repulsed by you, even if you have a 15 inch thundercock.

The average vagina can be satisfied to multiple orgasms by the average sized dick, just fine. Game, frame, and confidence will always matter, no matter what externals exist.

fabosexy · 2016-10-06T21:43:56+00:00

A big dick wont guarantee you success, however one indisputable benefit is that you never worry about a sexual encounter or what she will think. This alone increases your confidence which is everything.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2016-10-06T21:06:09+00:00

Women talk about men they have slept with so if you're really packing word will get out to her girlfriends and they'll want to give it a try. That's only if you're really on the upper end though.

GC0W30 · 2016-10-06T20:04:51+00:00

Can't make you alpha.

Weak frame makes you an instant beta. If you fail shit tests, all your physical advantages just got neutralized.

A big dick beta with good dick game might get passed around through a girl's friend group, but he only gets them a few times before his weak frame and failures as a man turn a given woman off.

I know a strong, lean, tall big-dicked beta who is broke, lives at home, and gets too into girls.

He has trouble maintaining LTRs, gets oneitis, and his plates usually break after 2 months, less if he comes around more than once a week.

I_LOVE_CHIPS · 2016-10-06T21:29:49+00:00

Most women are not attracted to dicks alone. They are attracted to the man the dick is attached to. There are obviously exceptions, guys who have 12 inch monsters etc... However, for the most part it is Game, Looks, Status etc... that attracts women.

spartan_317 · 2016-10-06T23:05:46+00:00

It will improve your confidence which by extension (no pun intended) will increase your SMV.

fuzzeenavel · 2016-10-07T00:06:05+00:00

I doubt it. People make dick size jokes all the time but I've never once heard people actually serious about it mattering

recursoinominado · 2016-10-07T00:25:23+00:00

Women love to talk about big dicks, they gossip about it all the time, I know this for a fact because I have lots of girl friends and one of them is my main plate. I have a 6 inches dick(more if you measure from behind because it makes an up curve) and my plate told everyone that my dick is small even though I fuck her really good and she can't take all of it. This isn't a speculation, this is a fact, women love to talk and brag about how big her current/past lover is even though most of them can't take it. That being said, if you don't have a big dick, what should you do? Fuck her like no other Chad thundercock did before and shut the fuck up about it.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-10-07T01:03:28+00:00

Sure the guy would be confident

Yep. Although generally it matters less to women than men think.

It's easier to get a girl "dick drunk", and I've had women shudder when I put it in all the way, which is nice for my ego, and that individual girl will remember it. /shrugs

but does that propel him to alpha status because of it?

Not if girls never see it because he's a beta phaggot.

Like if word gets around does that give him better odds of getting the women that 'knows'?

If they like big meat, yes. Or if they're 'curious' about it.

One thing you have to realize is that your girl's friends? They know everything about your dick. They know if you're packing a meat hammer or not, if you dress right or left, etc. Don't let it bother you.

That said, funny story time: I'm at a bar with two of my buddies. At that time, we all had gfs and they all knew each other. So I'll call the other two guys "Pete" and "Mike". Evidently, Mike's girl let slip that Pete's gf told her that Pete was hung. For some reason that got to Mike, I'm guessing because he wasn't. Pete is mostly grinning through all of this, and then Mike turns to me and says, "Doesn't it bother you that your buddy has a big dick?", to which I replied, "No, not in the slightest." Then I waited a beat and said, "And I want you to think about why that would be." Two beats later, Mike: "Fuck! Not you, too!"

I'm sure that wrecked his confidence for a week, but he was a high SMV pretty boy who always had it easy with girls, so fuck him. /grin

Bottom line is, you've got what you've got. Make the most of it. If a girl ever tells you that you're small, A&A and they say "That's why you're not gonna mind when I shove it up your ass." Suddenly, you'll be big again. (Hat Tip: Sam Kinison).

Anon241469 · 2016-10-07T03:15:45+00:00

The guy with the world record for the biggest dick has been sought out by women and been paid by them to let them suck it. Look it up, the guy is naturally 10+ inches.

mobodylikesus · 2016-10-07T03:45:53+00:00

Most women I've slept with have complained about guys with big dicks as much as they have the little ones. Mine is right in the middle, I wish it was an inch bigger (who doesn't) but I'm glad I don't have 8 inches or more - I know several guys with big dicks like that who have girls tap out in the middle of sex because it hurts too much, that or the guy can't put it in that far.

Most girls have a cervix that is between 5 and 7 inches deep. If you push deeper than that it can hurt, some girls like getting their cervix hit (size queens) but most it is painful and they do not like it. Cervix moves up and down during the cycle.

A 5-7 inch penis is more than enough to satisfy 95% of women on this planet if you know how to do foreplay and how last. A guy with 6 inches who lasts 20 minutes is far better than 8 inches who lasts 2 minutes. There are ways to last longer, but not grow your penis really. So focus on learning how to last, how to thrust properly, how to do foreplay, etc. That is what will win you points.

Having a big dick will scare more women away than it will get to sleep with you, and most of the ones who will be wanting to ride you over your penis size alone are going to come with diseases.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-10-07T06:12:02+00:00

Here's my personal opinion on the matter, developed under practical experience:

First of all, I'm actively involved in a BDSM community, now if there's a place where having a big dick is a symbol of higher value, it's definitely the BDSM community, if your kink is being dominant as an heterosexual male, if you have a big dick, that's half the game already won.

Now my dick is under average, but I'm fucking 6'2 210lb 15%BF, not even near shredded, but swole as a motherfucker, and by experience there's women that reject small dicks, but those are the grand minority, the vast majority of women work in a very psychological type of sex, I've seen this in BDSM, I've done this in BDSM, them feeling like they've been fucked like whores have nothing to do with having a dick punching their cervix, it has to do with how you use the rest of your body and basically your frame.

Now, for the reality check, does having a big, or more specifically thick dick makes things easier for you? It does, does it advertise you favorably? It does, is it necessary? Not even remotely.

Honestly, I'd say being short is way worse than having an under-average or small dick.

Bonus story: I actually plated and eventually ghosted one of the kinkiest most slutty chicks in this group of people, she came to me I did absolutely nothing aside from setting logistics, then I found out that she was plating this dude with a huge dick who now holds a grudge against me because she basically ditched him for me, and he found out that I'm under average. Funny thing is, this guy is short as fuck, skeleton mode, and she kept saying this in every other conversation.

Willkuer_ · 2016-10-06T19:44:17+00:00

Huge dick is probably a strong turn off. I think there is some bigdickproblems subreddit. Above avarage dick is probably optimal. But if you don't show it in public and you don't know her how could she know? Yes, it might boost your self-confidence but that's just one possible way to do it and it's a way you can't control.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-10-06T21:05:36+00:00

Hoes come across the smallest ugliest dicks on the CC. And until it's out they're playing roulette. Once they come across a big dick they don't won't to let it go. It's like getting pocket aces.

Womyn also tell their friends everything so you'll notice these chicks "randomly" being very into you after you've fucked their friend

Title	Does a big dick affect a man SMV?
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Date	October 6, 2016 6:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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