First of all, thank you guys. Since finding you guys. I grew some balls and my partner count went from 2 to 6 , in 4 months. Not great, but better than I've done up to now. (I am 24 and picking anyone up is foreign to me)

It was all just a matter of making my desires clear as soon as I meet the woman/girl.

I am no expert in matters of being a man, and sincerely wish to improve; so, please be harsh if need be.

Summary: FWB wants to hang out as friends tonight. Should I end this now?

Body: After spinning plates for about 2 months, I came across a post on TRP about a guy who caught herpes despite using protection and making sure that none of his partners had any symptoms.

I dont want herpes.

Perhaps this was a bad move, I dropped all my plates except the main one and made her the FWB. I call her to hook up tonight and she says she'd rather grab a drink at a bar as friends.

Her: She is legitimately fun to be around and makes good conversation. I am only entertaining the idea of hanging out with her as a "friend" because she put out the night we met, and then every other time we met. She is an "epiphany phase" woman and is a pro in bed.

Question: Do I soft next and move on? Or is it all in my head.

Thanks in advance.

Update: She said:

"I don't want to be fucking so many people."

"Can we just be friends"

I said:

"No, goodbye (her name)."

I appreciate all your input. Thank you.