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My "lesbian" plate

Rian_Stone
March 11, 2018
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Title My "lesbian" plate
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Rian_Stone
Upvotes 39
Comments 41
Date March 11, 2018 8:48 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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[–]88Will88 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Had a plate, she swore her and her husband were through, third separation, he was now living interstate, she said no chance of reconciliation. So I start banging her on the regular. I always do due diligence on plates as I don’t want the drama of fucking an attached woman, and I fucking hate cheats. So here is a breakdown:

  • firstly she was total trad con, only three previous relationships, never had sex outside of a relationship

  • really wanted to get pregnant, but 7 years with hubby, still no baby. Was considering in vitro

  • I subsequently find out hubby now back in the house on weekends, she let him fuck her because “I was ovulating and he is my husband”, cries a lot, I just really want a baby

  • I tell her I don’t want to see her again, she will not go away. She is a total nympho, I have never been with any woman that horny before. She used to wake me up 4-5 times every night sucking my dick and then just climbing on it. She tells me husband has moved out again

  • Loved to be dominated, hair pulling, slapping, rough sex. Literally could not get enough, I had to say no to lots of her requests for increase in roughness

  • gets constant messages from hubby asking where she is, turns out I am her new female friend, she even has a female name for me in her phone

  • Go to her house, photos of her and hubby everywhere, massive white wedding, photo shoot, million dollar house in nice area, hubby does not even look beta in photos, in shape, handsome guy

  • Tells me that I should get her pregnant, tells me not to worry, husband will never know and she will get him to pay all the bills. I never cum inside her again unless she swallows it

  • Turns out months later that husband has moved back in all along. She still wants me to see her, go away on holidays and talk to her for 2-3 hours every day, including phone sex so she can masturbate

I break it off, for months she still rings and texts. TBH I kind of enjoy the attention and ego boost, she is one of many ex plates/ STRs that still message me. She now forms part of my safety net should I ever want it. AWALT

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Is "Alpha Widowmaker" your middle name?

[–]88Will88 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I know guys way more alpha than me; elite armed forces guys, jacked and genetically handsome who live in their wive’s frames. I am neither jacked or handsome but I am a cocky son of a bitch. I think alpha widowing women comes down to a few things:

  1. Fuck her good
  2. Do all of her thinking for her
  3. Get deep inside her darker emotions, she should have told you every dark secret in her evil little brain

Do these things and I think some women can become an alpha widow. I have acted like this with lots of girls though and it is far from foolproof, I think girls with an n-count above 3 are immune to it, their ability to pair bond is shot. I actually think alpha widowing a woman has more to do with attitude and behaviour than raw masculinity (although you do have to fuck them good).

[–]straius1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's just a matter of whether you become a symbolic comparison or representation after leaving them about someone who established a powerful connection that "woke something up" in them.

It could be a different set of things for different women, but that symbolic nature of the memories they have is what defines whether you've alpha widowed them. Ie... you become a symbol of a feeling they had.

That sense that you somehow found something inside them they may not have known was there.

That's where that status comes from. N count and all that is somewhat irrelevant.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's so weird. While you do speak like you're a hard ass most of the time, you're really a softie on a lot of stuff.

Like a Boston creme left out too long.

[–]88Will881 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I’m a complicated and special snowflake

[–]DanG31 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

^ WORD !! ^ Doubters and haters need to do reading over on /Adultery and get your eyes opened to the feral nature of women.

[–]drty_prMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

oh he would kill you for sure, maybe me too

Eeek!

Maybe she is just saying that so you don't rat her out? Maybe not? Not worth that risk one bit.

I've had this debate on the main sub a few times. Someone who found TRP, squats 300lbs, trains in jiu-jitsu and kickboxing doesn't make them tough. I have friends who have grown up from single moms, spent their teenage years fighting/selling drugs/going to jail, cleaned up and now live the white picket fence life style. Their wives can cheat like any other wife. Get caught fucking one of those women and boy oh boy...

[–]88Will881 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Absolutely. Apart from that it illustrates what a woman will do to get the sex she craves. She will risk her own life, and the life of others, she will abandon her kids, she will make false reports to the police. Anyone who underestimates the powerful effect of hypergamy and the wilful blindness of the hamster can learn a lot here.

[–]UEMcGillMarried- MRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The irony in the whole thing is probably she never once fucked her husband like that. Probably straight up starfish for that cat his whole marriage.

I fucked around with a married chick when I was in my 20's. Some post coital pillow talk and somehow the subject came up about why she liked to be gorilla fucked and choked like she stole shit. One of her comments floored me, "Oh I could never do that with my husband..."

[–]88Will881 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She liked it every which way except doggy, she told me that doggy was the only way her husband would fuck her, and he only fucked her max twice a week. Two fucks was just a warm up for her.

[–]sadomasochristRed Pill - EC (kind of a big deal)0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

1000 lies

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER

1000 variations of hot for a dude who is unavailable

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER

I break it off, for months she still rings and texts.

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER

You are so damn lucky you don't have a child with this woman.

[–]88Will88 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She wasn’t BPD, she was a woman. As if I would impregnate her, she was a plate.

[–]sadomasochristRed Pill - EC (kind of a big deal)0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I never come inside her again..."

I'm not sure pregnancy works the way you think it does. You were a baby trap away from being the new guy putting up with her shit.

Are you really so blinded by your ego that you don't see this?

[–]88Will881 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Are you so terrified of women and the family courts that you only see the scary side of things?

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

That is some scary shit. Who teaches these women ethics at a young age!?!? Apparently nobody.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad they aren't creative. Easy to sort out

[–]weakandsensitive4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Why are you surprised? You think women want to fuck pussies? Not all women are lesbians.

The guy lives a happy delusion. The kids are in a stable family. The woman is getting her needs met. Seems legit to me.

Shit, half the guys here do the same thing from the flip side. Have the decency to have some tact.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Funny how few have caught that. Dalrock new years resolution was one an eye opening read, for the reasons you cited.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

http://www.returnofkings.com/misc/The-Solomon-Group.pdf - this, correct?

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yup. New years resolution.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That whole document is a excellent read. Lots of gems there.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So glad someone grabbed it before Solomon disappeared

[–]TaipanshimshonMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

well now I have something to do this afternoon

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's vlgotna good pook vibe to it

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I dunno, man. Even if you're still stuck in blue pill land, you would think that if your wife was like 'I need to find myself" and "I'm a lesbian" that the guy would still have the balls to go out and at least find a woman who wasn't a lesbian. And not be cucked, for that matter - no sex for the rest of his life, he's being told?!?

It's the lack of being able to do something about it that gets me. Lack of agency, lack of being able to control your own destiny.

And I'm not surprised, given the stuff I've read on here, Rollo's blog, and the main sub - not much surprises me (reminds me of that Saving The Best post back when I was unplugging).

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

By his own damn choice.

Boo hoo hoo for the guy who chooses to go through life blind when he could open his eyes.

I tell guys to lie to themselves for their own benefit all the time. How is this any different? What do you really expect for a guy with no boundaries and no self respect?

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"Good job at some office or another, high salary, but completely pussified and a victim of the politically correct, gender equality bullshit narrative." <-- if you grew up your entire life being fed a steady diet of politically correct bullshit, how much of a choice does he really have. It's easy to say that from a unplugged perspective, it's ALL about the choice. Harder when you're blind and fat off the bullshit.

Meh, it's probably the worst when you lie to yourself - because you're not accepting reality. Good example is back in dating, understanding where you were from a SMV or RMV perspective. If you're fat, you're not going to be dating sevens or higher (minus the outliers). Same principle here - he can lie to himself to make himself feel better, but reality is different.

And don't you tell them that they need hookers? I could have sworn that was the case.

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've never advocated frivolous spending unnecessarily.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockPlaying the lead roll0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“It's easy to say that from a unplugged perspective”

Yep. Before MRP, I would have thought this was made up.

Women will do anything for the right man. They all “seem” like princesses at first, but they are all crazy.

Reality is stranger than fiction.

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

if you grew up your entire life being fed a steady diet of politically correct bullshit, how much of a choice does he really have.

Everyone grows up being fed all sorts of bullshit with all sorts of intentions of control - capitalism, consumerism, religion, SES, peer pressure, etc. There are a ton of narratives out there to choose from. Most people are walking cliches.

Meh, it's probably the worst when you lie to yourself - because you're not accepting reality.

We ALL lie to ourselves about all sorts of stuff. Make the lies you tell yourself lead to your happiness.

[–]attack_bronson0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We’re looking in from the outside. Perhaps I’m trying to think positively about the situation, but hopefully he’s getting his on the side too.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I took note of the top comment. A good example why I consider fostering a relationship as a womans job.

[–]TaipanshimshonMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yea I never quite agreed with that. why entrust someone with any aspect of your life?

Especially someone with opposed inherent interests.

[–]fuckmrpMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because you can’t control it nor should you need it. You want loyalty and companionship, get a dog.

[–]TaipanshimshonMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

not sure if you are agreeing or disagreeing with me

[–]peaceful_strong_man2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Both of them are in the wrong.

[–]thunderbeyond0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Right" "wrong"

what does it matter? The simple fact is that it is.

[–]screechhaterMRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So, agreed, bat shit crazy.

Yes. Beyond comprehension. But, with feelz controlling every waking moment, the sway of husband repulsing her yet providing, indicates the mindset of most women and the horseshit mindfuck games

I have dialed in on these games and watched friends, employees and the likes tell their stories. It’s a continual rough ride for the beta boy, and a cat and mouse game of epic proportions for the Cunt.

I’m in a battle myself of the will of the ways, and studying all the sidebar, and this shit, I give myself another six months, I just file.

It’s a real fucking chore to open up, work on shit, but yet a finger cannot be put on the problem.

Is it that I am actually still drunk ? Or, still operating in her frame stating that I want it to work, but I am wanting to eat the snatch of the woman giving me her number at the store today ? .

[–]FireTempered 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or, still operating in her frame stating that I want it to work,

Only if you want it more than her...

but I am wanting to eat the snatch of the woman giving me her number at the store today

Is that relevant? Wouldn't you want it anyway...

yet a finger cannot be put on the problem

You might not know even if you find it. You might have to "accept" that you found it. Example: I'm losing money in my business. I keep looking for the answer. Maybe my best friend/employee is stealing. But I keep looking, because I cannot accept the answer. Best

[–]ABC_NO 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even after realizing this is truth, it still makes me sick to my stomach.

BUT... if I flip this and put myself in shoes that are single, I wouldn’t care too much.

It’s only my current station and position that give me such a reaction.

My internal reflection is what is interesting. The story is on par. All I know is, I don’t want to be that husband... no one want to be the cuck.

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