Relevant to my FR: Background on my progress: At the time had been working out for 4 months. Starting weight 189lbs, down to 177lbs, estimated 14%BF, cutting, target 10%BF @ 169lbs. Well groomed beard and haircut. Form fitting clothes.

I recently had an experience that I’ve deduced was my woman’s way of bolstering her rank in her workplace female social matrix with... me.

She’s employed in a predominantly female work environment, and asked me one day if I could come in to help out with something. I’ve got some extra time on my hands, and so I agreed.

I show up, get introduced to some others I’m about to help, there is small chit chat, and my wife goes back to her office. I begin to try to immerse myself in what is expected of me.

Here is where it gets funny. I soon realise that my expertise and experience is not needed. I realise I’m just a prop, and see the situation for what it really is: I’ve been brought in so that I can be evaluated by the FSM.

Pre RP, I might have been feeling my time was being wasted, and even worse, may have begun to externalise these feelings. Not now – in this situation I’m keenly aware of the gig, and I’m up for it.

So that’s exactly what I did. I had fun. Chatted up whoever would chat me up, one of which half way through the exchange I discovered to be her one over manager (female). All the while pretending to work the “role” I had been originally asked to come in for, but knowing FULL WELL it was bogus.

After my agreed upon time to be there had expired, I was walked to my wife’s office by another coworker, and hung out for 5 min or so with a couple of her co-workers. When it was time to leave, I grabbed her behind the neck, gave her kiss and went home. Nothing needy, more of a “you’re mine” kiss with slight machiavellian feel to it.

Later that night my wife giddily recounted how some other gal had sent a text to the woman walking me to my wife’s office: “Who is that man candy you are walking with?” She said she couldn’t wait to get to work to “call her on it” the next day.

Later that night when I started to initiate she said she couldn’t , because of blah blah blalh, I ignored, led her to bed and we had a nice session.

But that’s not the point. The point is, your woman’s status in the FSM is directly influenced by you. Be sure you understand this , and use it to your advantage, however that is.

And I realise that the gains that were made that day each in our own worlds could have been two or three fold had I been further into my MAP. This is not a “Mission Accomplished” speech. This is a “Gentlemen we have come this far put your head down and keep going” talk.

Here is how you can understand [the female social matrix further] (http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2012/05/female-social-matrix-introduction.html)

TLDR – If the opportunity to show you off exists but needs prompting, and you are worth showing off, she will find a way. MRP will make sure you are ready for this, so that you and your wife may capitalize on this each in your own capacity.