TL;DR

A short note on the betaizaton self-faggotization process as seen from other side, and, as usual, a small but narcissistic humble-brag.

Body

A young girl I work with (she's 24 yo) is married for about 10 months with a guy she was dating for 6 years. They both come from a small town or a village. We all live in something you could call "a traditional country", each year getting more and more "progressive", but still.

He is a policeman. A guy who bears firearms, handcuffs, sometimes uses force. A guy who works a dangerous job.

Real manly man, right?

And that beautiful unicorny girl who could do no harm, with her baby face, maybe he's her first, maybe she lost her V-card to him, and they married, beautiful, traditional, God- and RooshV-approved marriage, right?

What could go wrong?

She told me today they go to some show this evening... and that she needs to help him to dress, because his typical attire could not be elegant enough for the venue they attend.

Then I learn that he got himself much fatter last year. That every his shirt became too small for him. That even his mother berates him for it.

I connect the dots, few months ago she told me something around the lines that he drinks a lot when he goes out partying with his friends.

And that she gave me her phone no without asking earlier.

Her friend told me, that her husband got angry, butt hurt and insecure a few times when she told him she worked with me. TBH, I bet she's resenting him for not being more like me and tells him about me from time to time to gauge his reaction (and, take note, this is a common question at AskMRP). When we work together, I order her around, that's her job to fulfil my requests.

I threw out the card with her phone no, even without looking at it. I have had enough trouble in my life and having an angry jealous policeman checking my car or knocking at my door at 2 am is not one of the situations I'd like to happen. My fault, I can't say I didn't gamed her somehow, in a very light way.

Mind, that guy from your wife's work that your wife keeps telling you about it might have less trouble than me.

Summary

Hubby became fat, drinks and is jealous of an attractive, older, divorced coworker and not a single year of marriage has passed yet.

Takeaways

  • can you blame her?
  • no, honestly - can you blame her?
  • TRP uber alles,
  • women are not the enemy,
  • I saw myself in her story - I was that hubby too... today it is so easy, so obvious... Lord, have mercy.

Post-scriptum

20-25 yo from small towns and villages have divorce rate of 90%.