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I’ve been on a bit of an MRP/Manosphere hiatus as life picked up and grad school shifted into high gear. Specifically advanced statistics, that shit, for the past 3 months - has been the bane of my existence...but I digress.

I am done with Stats and can now divert my attention back to something I feel very passionate about, masculinity and the modern day man. I had considered stepping away from the manosphere entirely, but something kept pulling me back. Maybe it was seeing the fat son whose dad was more interested in ‘being one of the girls’ at the playground with the other moms while I ran around with my kids. Maybe it was my competitive side nagging at my brain saying, You have a book that is 95% finished, did you quit because you were afraid of facing the music, walking away instead of submitting to publishers?? Maybe...The most likely reason I have doubled down my efforts on this subject is because we need it. I need to be surrounded by lions, masculine men who are charging forward. It kills me knowing how many men there are out there suffering day and night, fucking hating themselves for being who they are. Men who repress their masculinity instead of expressing it.

Regardless of the why, I’m back and am looking forward to raising my own standard and possibly helping others do the same. Here is a piece from my latest post, Masculine Moves.

This is going to be a less theoretical and more – blunt post. My post on 10 Ways to keep your wife on her toes helped a lot of guys out so I figured this list would be beneficial as well. I was asked a while back by /u/druganswer to write a post on what I did to show my lady that I was ‘the man’. I responded with a quick list of things I normally do without really thinking of it, but, when asked to analyze how my wife knows she has a masculine dude, these are the things that popped into my mind. This is by no means all inclusive, as I don’t write things down when I do them, but it’s a start.

Before getting to the list, you need to keep a few things in mind.

First, this is my list. Some of these things may sound retarded and counterproductive, I ensure you I only employ the tactics I know will work or if I am teasing my wife I don’t really care if they work or not. I will use them just to let her know, I’m going to do me, I’m not a guy she can mold and contain, I’m free and fucking awesome.

Second, these things are aimed towards my wife. I highly recommend you take a few things from this list that you haven’t done and see what kind of response you get. Your wife may hate when you grab her neck, mine loves it. You won’t know until you try it.

Third, try more than once. Maybe slapping your girl’s ass hard doesn’t work the first time. So, the second time, try tapping it, or lifting it from the bottom of her butt cheek. Basically, try the same thing, differently.

Fourth, add to the list. Once you take a few of my suggestions and moves, leave me a comment to grow my list, and start thinking of your own list of Masculine Moves. Start thinking of things you do, or should do more often to let your woman know, you are fucking awesome.

Fifth, fucking enjoy it. If you and your wife aren’t laughing and smiling a majority of the time, you’re doing it wrong. I grab my woman and spin her around in public places, at home, family functions, wherever. Do You. Fuck who sees it and fuck it if it is totally appropriate, have fun – life sucks if you follow the beta path that has been laid before you, forge your own.

My List of Masculine Moves

• I will put my arm around her shoulders.

• In front of a party I will yell out to my wife for whatever, Be on my beer pong team, grab me a beer you sexy fucking woman, HEY! Your butt looks good in those pants I get loud, everyone shuts the fuck up, and in front of the silent crowd, I embarrass my lady with love. This isn’t drunk obnoxious screaming, it’s breaking the set volume people have. If people are all keeping it at a 4, I will raise it to a 6 and do my thing. I keep my request/statement appropriate to the environment as the goal is to let her know you aren’t afraid of the world knowing you are with her as well as her knowing you are doing you and not keeping yourself conformed to the people around you.

• I tell her No when that is how I feel and Yes when that is how I feel. I don’t placate my response to her emotion.

• I never change who I am or what I feel to avoid confrontation.

• I will order for her if I know what she wants, or if I know there is something I want her to try.

• I will order her drinks whether she is at the table or in the bathroom, mixing it up – martini, cocktail, whatever – I try to keep it stylish and cater it to what she likes.

• I fix shit that is broken

• I train her during PT

• I will hold her hand anytime anywhere. Other couples are separating, I try to keep it fresh and romantic like when we were teenagers. I see couples sit across the table from us, feet apart while when we sit together in a booth or table, we are right near one another, holding inner thighs, hands, and just fucking around with each other.

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Acta Non Verba, Hunter