Jaded

Griever114 · 2016-03-16T11:52:28+00:00

Honestly, its the tailend portion of the anger phase. You STILL have anger towards her/the system and with you unplugging/OI regards to sex you think she is beneath you since she was the the catalyst for your change.

"Why should I have sex with her.. i dont need her... she is the reason for all this bullshit"

Remember, YOU still need to accept responsiblity for YOUR actions. Yes, you made changes but you cannot blame her for being the beta. You fucked up, she is a woman, this is their nature.

You are harboring resentment. Get over it.

Read, lift and enjoy your life. It passes.

bogeyd6 · 2016-03-16T11:31:02+00:00

You are going through the phase that every man here unplugging goes through. Fix sex, discontent with the sex. It's a phase and it passes.

over60_stupid_loner · 2016-03-16T14:49:38+00:00

Yes, it is a phase,and, it can come and go.

Now that you are following your path more than hers, many things change in new ways. Sometimes your path takes you places you have not been before.

Don't forget when all you wanted was to be desired by your wife.
Don't you be a sex denying harpy either.

Enjoy the ride.

Blackthorn8 · 2016-03-17T10:21:27+00:00

A couple questions that you didn't mention in your OP- is your wife physically attractive? Is her SMV at your level?

Second- is there a woman in your social circle or at work that is recently coming on to you?

BluepillProfessor · 2016-03-16T15:27:03+00:00

I thought we had recently discovered a new and hopefully final stage of unplugging. I called it: The apathy stage.

However, /u/rollotomossi identified this a while ago:

The 5 Stages of Unplugging

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance
Jaded

You are still Jaded. The solution, apparently is /r/MGTOW but that is not much of an option for us married guys.

TheFamilyAlpha · 2016-03-16T11:32:41+00:00

Stop being a pussy?

What do you want, someone here to say, 'hey man, it's alright.'

Because that's not going to happen. You aren't finding joy in the process, you aren't finding purpose in the struggle and that is weaksauce as fuck.

Your wife can't even get dick in her life because her husband is fucking moping.

You say you're happy with yourself - but I don't think you are.

I'm not the RP man I should be.

What does this mean?

Boesman12 · 2016-03-16T16:54:18+00:00

There is nothing I can add to the advice you got up to now. For me the anger stage is coming and going like being a fucking manic depressive. Until a day or so ago when I decided that I alone have control over my feelings.

Try having fun with your wife like you would your little sister. Joke and tease her the whole time. Turn initiation into a game. See how far you can push and then back off. You are a lot further than me, with your wife submitting, so see how much you can seduce her. Get her to want to rip your clothes off. Make it a game.

And also. Read deadbedrooms. How pathwtic would you feel if your wife posted there that her husband is LL and she is just sooooooo frustrated...?

0io- · 2016-03-18T03:18:06+00:00

I do have some advice for you: Change up your diet and your exercise routines and hobbies. Join some totally different social circles and hang out in completely different places. Spend less time around your wife at home, and more time out with her doing stuff you have never done before.

Same old, same old, gets BORING. Go vegan for a month or two or try paleo. You're stuck in a rut. You're bored with your life and your wife. Maybe make a point of only having sex with her in unusual places or something. Go on a camping trip if that's not your usual thing.

Title	Jaded
Author	stargazer35
Upvotes	11
Comments	20
Date	March 16, 2016 11:06 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4an9vc/jaded/
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