First few days as a MRP

theultmatecad · 2015-06-27T12:30:47+00:00

Key thing you said is that you refuse to be dragged into argument. That's the new normal. Fighting with the wife is top shelf beta behaviour.

Good job OP. Join the gym and start lifting

BluepillProfessor · 2015-06-27T15:43:20+00:00

End goal, be happy with or without her. She is welcome to join me.

And...BOOM goes the dynamite.

abdada · 2015-06-27T12:21:34+00:00

Good start.

You need to find something good in life. You are that good.

TheMatrixWantsMeBack · 2015-06-27T15:34:36+00:00

Welcome! I'm in a similar boat with you. I'll chime in with what others say and mention that WISNIFG is a really,really,really,really good read too.

redioz · 2015-06-27T22:36:53+00:00

You will start to have successes in the bedroom soon, don't let these allow you to let your guard down and return to your beta ways. This is not a sprint but a life long marathon. Keep your foot on the gas.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-06-27T13:30:36+00:00

good job. please read up on the process you are going through in the sidebar. depending on your details, you may have a main event, or a long year ahead of you.

especially before you start posting regular. Mods here respond well to those who have done their research

thisisme0007 · 2015-06-27T13:41:11+00:00

Nice, welcome! The one thing I wish I did at the very beginning was....read faster!

AdanacRock · 2015-06-27T14:52:18+00:00

A lot of people seem to find that when they start out the get the wife or SO trying to lure them into a fights or arguments. It his her way of trying to push you out of frame.

I think they have some secret jedi mind power that allows them to sense a disturbance in the force. Expect that this is only going to get worse especially as you start going to the gym. She is not going to like you changing especially for the better. You are going throw her perfect stable life out of sorts. Don't let her sabotage your progress

Mister_Shitlord_2U · 2015-06-28T17:48:23+00:00

I try and initiate sex every day since wednesday. Get turned down every time.

If i was repeatedly turned down as a power play, I would tell her "Fine then, porn it is" and walk away. I'd let her walk in while I was looking at pictures of a certain pornstar (Jenna Jameson for instance) and handling things myself.

When she walks in, before she can say anything, I would point to the computer screen and say "Look at her tits. They're beautiful. I've never seen such perfect tits before!" (this includes hers of course. a neg) while still handling things myself.

When she freaks out, I would tell her "Jenna never turns me down like you do"

It's important that she would see me happily enjoying myself without her and I would finish right in front of her. By doing this it shows OI and would remove the power withholding sex gave her. Women hate porn for this reason.

Next time I initiate sex, simply say "You or Jenna?"

This is how I would handle the situation. But then, I am a shitlord.

Title	First few days as a MRP
Author	The_Litz
Upvotes	23
Comments	26
Date	June 27, 2015 12:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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